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Sorry, it's just not working for me. I'll be deleting my account sometime this week.
Later.
Later.
njlonelydude said:Sorry, it's just not working for me. I'll be deleting my account sometime this week.
Later.
texlost said:njlonelydude said:Sorry, it's just not working for me. I'll be deleting my account sometime this week.
Later.
Again, I ask why? This place, like any other is not perfect. Do you feel as though you have been failed? Has no one responded to you?
I think you should stay. You never know what you might find. what might touch you or help in some way.
This is to everyone else who posted on this thread:
This forum is about "the Lonely Life",
we all come on here and post our thoughts and fears, some of us, our failures. We come here to fill some need we have. Yet when someone states that they are leaving, we say:
Bye, Good luck, Hope you have a nice life, whatever....
Why, when we claim we are lonely, do we let someone wander off without even finding out why?
I'm not trying to criticize, I promise, its just confusing to me.
SophiaGrace said:texlost said:...This is to everyone else who posted on this thread:
This forum is about "the Lonely Life",
we all come on here and post our thoughts and fears, some of us, our failures. We come here to fill some need we have. Yet when someone states that they are leaving, we say:
Bye, Good luck, Hope you have a nice life, whatever....
Why, when we claim we are lonely, do we let someone wander off without even finding out why?
I'm not trying to criticize, I promise, its just confusing to me.
Because this forum sometimes out-wears it's use to some people. If they do not state why, this is what I assume. That they've gotten what they could from the forum & are now moving on. Who are we to make someone stay when we each are "filled" in different ways via this forum?
These people are ALWAYS welcome back if they feel the need or desire to come back.
That's kind of my point.PurpleDays said:I think ALL pretty much has an revolving doors policy... (I think this is the right phrase... >_<)
So like, if someone leaves... that's cool, we'll miss them... but if someone comes back... everyone seems to be like "Oh hey, it's you! It's ages since we last saw you! How ARE you?"
At least that's my experience from Chat...
There are some pretty **** good people on this site.
texlost said:That's kind of my point.PurpleDays said:I think ALL pretty much has an revolving doors policy... (I think this is the right phrase... >_<)
So like, if someone leaves... that's cool, we'll miss them... but if someone comes back... everyone seems to be like "Oh hey, it's you! It's ages since we last saw you! How ARE you?"
At least that's my experience from Chat...
There are some pretty **** good people on this site.
I was involved with a group in college, who it is is unimportant. But I kind of fell off the face of the planet. They knew where I was, and could have contacted me, but no one did. When I was slipping away, no one said "hey, whats going on with you? Anything we can do to help"
You see what I mean. Now please understand, I'm not bitching about what happened to me, that was almost 20 years ago, but I thought it was a good example.
Are we so insulated from others that we really don't care?
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