Tuppence
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I wasn't sure about writing this. I might be imagining things.
But when my sister got married, my parents were so excited. They thought it was the most amazing thing ever. They talked about it to everybody. They planned outfits and speeches, they couldn't wait.
Now I'm getting married, and they don't seem that interested. My dad has never voluntarily mentioned it to me. When I talk about it, I don't get much of a reply - he doesn't usually say much about anything except sport, but he did talk about my sister's wedding. My mum doesn't seem bothered at all. She answers when I tell her about it, but she hasn't asked questions or shown much interest at all. I sometimes wonder if she believes the wedding will happen.
I haven't talked to my fiancé about it. I don't want to upset him, though I did upset him anyway because I was crying and I said I was just tired, and that worried him. I don't think my parents hate him. My mum says he's the only respectable boyfriend I've ever had and my dad's never moaned about anything he's said or done. He was always moaning about my ex.
But when my sister got married, my parents were so excited. They thought it was the most amazing thing ever. They talked about it to everybody. They planned outfits and speeches, they couldn't wait.
Now I'm getting married, and they don't seem that interested. My dad has never voluntarily mentioned it to me. When I talk about it, I don't get much of a reply - he doesn't usually say much about anything except sport, but he did talk about my sister's wedding. My mum doesn't seem bothered at all. She answers when I tell her about it, but she hasn't asked questions or shown much interest at all. I sometimes wonder if she believes the wedding will happen.
I haven't talked to my fiancé about it. I don't want to upset him, though I did upset him anyway because I was crying and I said I was just tired, and that worried him. I don't think my parents hate him. My mum says he's the only respectable boyfriend I've ever had and my dad's never moaned about anything he's said or done. He was always moaning about my ex.