Firefly said:
Hi Paul
Welcome aboard.
I know how difficult it is being alone after a relationship has come to an end.
The boredom can make the loneliness worse. Some people find it helps to try to fill up their time. What do you enjoy doing ?
This forum can also offer good support too.
thanks firefly for your reply, what makes it worse was i was marriedto a very possesive woman so this might sound a bit odd but i found it a little hard to do things i used to like whilst married so at the moment a little depression as set in and untill i can pull my self out of this i just cant be botherd to do any thing, some people might call this feeling sorry for oneself but i assure you its not.
Jilted John said:
Hi Paul.
I'm John. Sorry you're going through a hard time at the moment, been where you are now,it's a terrible time just waiting for the lawyers,while they try to wring out as much money as they can from your misfortune,but it will get better,honest.
thanks john for the reply, yes tell me about it i'm at my wits end with my lawyer and just dont no what to do, she is just totally useless, was thinking about swapping but ive already spent a small fortune with her and dont really want to take the risk of having to pay out again with some one else.