Keo
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If I knew what was wrong, I'd think of a proper title... but it's sort of a mix of many things. So I guess if you feel like coming up with one for me that'd be great lol.
Anyways... as you can probably guess, this is based around loneliness. This might get a little wordy but this site exists for things like this right?
Lately.. I've been disappointed in society. Saying society in general would mean referring to the world.. and that's a bit much so I guess it's just the social world I'm in. But yeh, I'm sick of it. I don't show or tell anyone this, but it disgusts me. Because of this way of thinking, I've been feeling lonely. Lonely that no one could ever understand me or think like me.
All I hear about is alcohol, partying, clubs, gambling etc. I'm part of a social world.. but I secretly reject it. I don't tell them nor show any signs of it. I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't gamble nor do I do drugs. I'm only 18 so I guess people can think that I'll go for one of them later, I'm pretty determined with my way of life atm, so that won't be changing any time soon. I don't look down on people who do those things, honestly I don't really care, I'll only care if I'm pestered to try one of those things, that's when I'll get ticked off.
Ok I'm getting a bit side tracked... back to the social world. My social world is... well... honeysuckle. I'm the only person who thinks like me... if that makes any sense. It makes me feel lonely.. like I'm the only person of my kind. I guess you could call me a boring person. Yes, that's right.. I'm a boring person. I refuse to go to clubs, or drink alcohol, or smoke, or gamble. All my friends do these things. I'm not asking for advice on if I should follow my friends, no no no. I'm already at the "they can do whatever the hell they want"-stage. I might seem like I don't get out much... but I think if I was part of different social world, I would go out heaps more. I understand that these people have been good to me, and I appreciate that, I really do.
But I need change.
I can't go to the places that they want to go because I don't enjoy them. I used to be at the stage where I didn't care as long as I'm with them. But ever since we all turned 18, all they care about is partying, clubbing, alcohol, and gambling. They've all changed... I'm the only one who hasn't. I want to remain true to myself.. I don't want to change myself just to fit in. They understand my 'way of life' and they respect my choices which is nice... but majority rules and I also understand I can't let my way of life stop them from having their fun. I don't know what to do anymore.
I'm a very heavy anime watcher, before I evenly spread my time between education, going out, and anime. But now there's been a lot less going out, so naturally, anime has become more. (If you ever want anime recommendations I'll be glad to help)
But yeh.. I'm lost atm. Are all social worlds like this?... I don't even know if I'll ever find a new one. Even if it consisted of a few people who are generally good natured. I don't have any social problems, so I guess I'm generally liked by most people. I just don't know if I should continue to stay in this social world that I dislike... because I'll never find another one or if I should try and find another one (how that would be done?.. no idea lol).
Either way, I'll still be lonely. Just one option has the risk of me being more lonely. I'm not super depressed that I wanna kill myself or anything. I'm just tired.. of everything. I'm not even looking for love or anything** all I want is a small group of friends who don't mind just chatting. Every time this happens in my social group.. it ALWAYS ends with "LETS GO CLUBBING" or "LETS GO FOR A DRIVE" =_=.
**[as a healthy male, it'd be kind of ignorant for me to say I'm not looking for love. I guess you can say... I'm not really keen on it or anything. My definition of 'love' is warmth, understanding and communication with a partner. So I guess you could call it a "life long friend who is female" lol. I'm not suffering from any problems in this area, this is just a note-thingy]
Sorry it was so long, it ended up being more of a rant. I just had to get things off my chest. This has all been bottled up for about a year now. So be grateful it's only this much lol. I kinda just spat all this out on the spot.. so it may get updated later. But this is all for now. Thank you for reading...
Anyways... as you can probably guess, this is based around loneliness. This might get a little wordy but this site exists for things like this right?
Lately.. I've been disappointed in society. Saying society in general would mean referring to the world.. and that's a bit much so I guess it's just the social world I'm in. But yeh, I'm sick of it. I don't show or tell anyone this, but it disgusts me. Because of this way of thinking, I've been feeling lonely. Lonely that no one could ever understand me or think like me.
All I hear about is alcohol, partying, clubs, gambling etc. I'm part of a social world.. but I secretly reject it. I don't tell them nor show any signs of it. I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't gamble nor do I do drugs. I'm only 18 so I guess people can think that I'll go for one of them later, I'm pretty determined with my way of life atm, so that won't be changing any time soon. I don't look down on people who do those things, honestly I don't really care, I'll only care if I'm pestered to try one of those things, that's when I'll get ticked off.
Ok I'm getting a bit side tracked... back to the social world. My social world is... well... honeysuckle. I'm the only person who thinks like me... if that makes any sense. It makes me feel lonely.. like I'm the only person of my kind. I guess you could call me a boring person. Yes, that's right.. I'm a boring person. I refuse to go to clubs, or drink alcohol, or smoke, or gamble. All my friends do these things. I'm not asking for advice on if I should follow my friends, no no no. I'm already at the "they can do whatever the hell they want"-stage. I might seem like I don't get out much... but I think if I was part of different social world, I would go out heaps more. I understand that these people have been good to me, and I appreciate that, I really do.
But I need change.
I can't go to the places that they want to go because I don't enjoy them. I used to be at the stage where I didn't care as long as I'm with them. But ever since we all turned 18, all they care about is partying, clubbing, alcohol, and gambling. They've all changed... I'm the only one who hasn't. I want to remain true to myself.. I don't want to change myself just to fit in. They understand my 'way of life' and they respect my choices which is nice... but majority rules and I also understand I can't let my way of life stop them from having their fun. I don't know what to do anymore.
I'm a very heavy anime watcher, before I evenly spread my time between education, going out, and anime. But now there's been a lot less going out, so naturally, anime has become more. (If you ever want anime recommendations I'll be glad to help)
But yeh.. I'm lost atm. Are all social worlds like this?... I don't even know if I'll ever find a new one. Even if it consisted of a few people who are generally good natured. I don't have any social problems, so I guess I'm generally liked by most people. I just don't know if I should continue to stay in this social world that I dislike... because I'll never find another one or if I should try and find another one (how that would be done?.. no idea lol).
Either way, I'll still be lonely. Just one option has the risk of me being more lonely. I'm not super depressed that I wanna kill myself or anything. I'm just tired.. of everything. I'm not even looking for love or anything** all I want is a small group of friends who don't mind just chatting. Every time this happens in my social group.. it ALWAYS ends with "LETS GO CLUBBING" or "LETS GO FOR A DRIVE" =_=.
**[as a healthy male, it'd be kind of ignorant for me to say I'm not looking for love. I guess you can say... I'm not really keen on it or anything. My definition of 'love' is warmth, understanding and communication with a partner. So I guess you could call it a "life long friend who is female" lol. I'm not suffering from any problems in this area, this is just a note-thingy]
Sorry it was so long, it ended up being more of a rant. I just had to get things off my chest. This has all been bottled up for about a year now. So be grateful it's only this much lol. I kinda just spat all this out on the spot.. so it may get updated later. But this is all for now. Thank you for reading...