well, I must say that I am a bit shocked about this discovery:
as many of you, I am registered in an online website, I don't use it much and I get mostly booty call messages, but in general I get a couple of messages and some Likes every day, sometimes also by decent people. Can't say I am a huge success, it's not like I am invisible either.
Well, as an experiment last week I tried to change my location from where I am now to my home town in another country.
One of the reasons why I left my home country (grew up among two different countries, but only one I considered home) was that I felt completely invisible to men there, even when I was a hot 20 years old! (I did have a couple of years of hotness then) - well, apparently it wasn't my impression because in over one week, nothing! not one Like, not one message.
Also, all guys set their settings to look for women who are at least 10 years younger, and even the 50+ don't search for women older than 35 (!) so basically I was really right to leave that country.
I wanted to share this to tell you that maybe it's not you but your geographical location that doesn't let you meet like minded people.
as many of you, I am registered in an online website, I don't use it much and I get mostly booty call messages, but in general I get a couple of messages and some Likes every day, sometimes also by decent people. Can't say I am a huge success, it's not like I am invisible either.
Well, as an experiment last week I tried to change my location from where I am now to my home town in another country.
One of the reasons why I left my home country (grew up among two different countries, but only one I considered home) was that I felt completely invisible to men there, even when I was a hot 20 years old! (I did have a couple of years of hotness then) - well, apparently it wasn't my impression because in over one week, nothing! not one Like, not one message.
Also, all guys set their settings to look for women who are at least 10 years younger, and even the 50+ don't search for women older than 35 (!) so basically I was really right to leave that country.
I wanted to share this to tell you that maybe it's not you but your geographical location that doesn't let you meet like minded people.