Papabear
Well-known member
I've noticed a trend as of lately, I would say that it's just typical of the type of friends that I hang out with but lately I've noticed it seems more and more to be affecting everyone.
What I'm talking about is the complete *$*#($* that people can turn into when they get in a relationship. I'm not talking about towards their new SO but to their old friends. I'm also not talking about the new SO manipulating them or anything, it's just these people being d-bags.
Examples like, they've spent the last 3 nights together and then your friend cancels plans with you to do something with them despite that you've had these plans a lot longer. Just things like that. I understand that being in a new relationship is exciting, but it seems like everyone around here does it and they are all very rude about it.
Even a close friend of mine who is one of the most respectful and polite guys I know has turned into a total POS because he keeps blowing off plans that we make and stuff despite that he spends 90% of the time with her anyways.
I'm not just being jealous. I'm excited and happy for him, but he's now rescheduled our plans 6 nights in a row and spent every one of them with her, he waits until the last minute to do it, and one night waited until we had been together for 20 minutes (left after she called him). Tonight we had plans that I thought were finally gonna work out but he's going over there instead... which really pisses me off since he's going to spend the next week and a half with her on a trip.
But really, i'm talking almost everyone, at every stage of a relationship.
What I'm talking about is the complete *$*#($* that people can turn into when they get in a relationship. I'm not talking about towards their new SO but to their old friends. I'm also not talking about the new SO manipulating them or anything, it's just these people being d-bags.
Examples like, they've spent the last 3 nights together and then your friend cancels plans with you to do something with them despite that you've had these plans a lot longer. Just things like that. I understand that being in a new relationship is exciting, but it seems like everyone around here does it and they are all very rude about it.
Even a close friend of mine who is one of the most respectful and polite guys I know has turned into a total POS because he keeps blowing off plans that we make and stuff despite that he spends 90% of the time with her anyways.
I'm not just being jealous. I'm excited and happy for him, but he's now rescheduled our plans 6 nights in a row and spent every one of them with her, he waits until the last minute to do it, and one night waited until we had been together for 20 minutes (left after she called him). Tonight we had plans that I thought were finally gonna work out but he's going over there instead... which really pisses me off since he's going to spend the next week and a half with her on a trip.
But really, i'm talking almost everyone, at every stage of a relationship.