PlayingSolo
Well-known member
Hi everyone, first-time-post here.
I'm the kind of person that really prefers to be alone a lot of the time. I'm very introverted and if I'm around someone for to long, I start feeling like I just need to get away from the person to get my energy back. This even happens with the few friends that I have, who are very good friends. The only people I've noticed that it doesn't happen around is my immediate family.
With that being said, I'm a twenty year old male, with a part time job in customer service while going to college. I had my first and only girlfriend a couple years ago that lasted for almost a year. While my relationship with her didn't work out, she really helped me find who I am in many different ways. Ever since then, I've really wanted to find that special girl that will make me happy and I can make her happy. I'm pretty shy, especially around girls. I've tried various dating websites, all in vain. However, I'm a little concerned that once I do find someone, the fact that I'm so introverted wouldn't make for a good relationship. These seem to be polar opposites. I always find myself wanting to be with someone doing various activities together, but I fear that I would start to feel the need separate myself from her for a while after a few hours... which is the exact opposite from what I imagine in my head. I'm just curious if anyone else has run into this situation before?
--PlayingSolo
I'm the kind of person that really prefers to be alone a lot of the time. I'm very introverted and if I'm around someone for to long, I start feeling like I just need to get away from the person to get my energy back. This even happens with the few friends that I have, who are very good friends. The only people I've noticed that it doesn't happen around is my immediate family.
With that being said, I'm a twenty year old male, with a part time job in customer service while going to college. I had my first and only girlfriend a couple years ago that lasted for almost a year. While my relationship with her didn't work out, she really helped me find who I am in many different ways. Ever since then, I've really wanted to find that special girl that will make me happy and I can make her happy. I'm pretty shy, especially around girls. I've tried various dating websites, all in vain. However, I'm a little concerned that once I do find someone, the fact that I'm so introverted wouldn't make for a good relationship. These seem to be polar opposites. I always find myself wanting to be with someone doing various activities together, but I fear that I would start to feel the need separate myself from her for a while after a few hours... which is the exact opposite from what I imagine in my head. I'm just curious if anyone else has run into this situation before?
--PlayingSolo