I always find it interesting how one sided most people think. I could have a hay day showing that there are good and bad sides to absolutely everything. I used to think glass half full? Glass half empty? Didn't really know what to think about that. Then I realized it's half full "AND" half empty. Anyone who thinks it's either/or is deluding themselves.
Many guys are adept at making women feel wanted. When in truth, if you keeled over and died they would laugh about it later with friends. Giving you a coat one minute and laughing at you behind your back the next. Having grown up under a father who is this way I know full well just how fake people can be. Those who are the nicest to strangers can turn around and be the hugest ******** you have ever seen. My father pours on extra extra honey to strangers and he hit us as infants for crying. It was always strange to see people eating his bull up. Made me sick. Sure after a while people would catch on, but it’s impossible to tell until you have known someone a good while. There is no way to really tell who a person is from dating. They say it takes 2 years in a relationship to really get to know someone. Those most at ease and most comfortable probably are so because they don't give a darn how anyone other then them self feels. They have the scent of underwear and that is all that really matters to them. It seems to me like many guys look at women like vacuum cleaners and are darn good at cleaning up over and over and over. It seems like many people are so naive as to not realize that many lie in everything they do. People fool themselves into believing they can tell, when really they can't. And many lie to others and themselves and turn around and expect different treatment themselves. I guess people just need to decide if they want to feel wanted or really be wanted. The two are not always the same and sometimes complete opposites. MANY MANY guys don't give a darn about women. All they need are a few parts and for someone to let their guard down. Being wanted does not mean someone just wanting a few of your parts. To understand guys women need to understand that many guys see women like a bass. Of course women do the same thing so they can only blame themselves. Another part of the problem is people go out looking for someone “perfect” when no one is, including them selves. Deny those who are flawed, but genuine and real. And go for those who are more then likely all an act. Fall for them. Then eventually see who they really are, get confused and think because they acted such and such way they can change them. And the real kicker is those who pass up the real, but flawed people deserve it. What goes around comes around. As you do unto others so you do unto yourself. It’s strange how that really works.
An Anarchist is right. I see so many advertisements for "How to land women" like fish. Or push their buttons like a vacuum cleaner, that it's revolting. I get them in email constantly and have read several. Most guys probably have. The smoothest operators can and will say literally anything. Not because it's how they feel, but because it will get them what they want. Don't be fooled. Many times confidence is nothing more then not giving a **** about anyone other then them self. It's extremely easy for such people to fake caring. Some people are very good actors. And suckers just eat it up so sure it can't happen to them. Then deny that it just happened to them.
Take my mother for instance. My father was an angel right up to marriage. Then shortly after he threatened to kill her if she ever left him. After her giving 35 years of her life she got sick and he wanted her to hurry up and die. So he could replace her and not feel the slightest guilt. And the scary thing is people like him are COMMON, maybe even normal. My mother stayed with him because she thought he would change, she didn't get married to get divorced, and some people have it worse. I have a brother who defends him. Guess what, he is 23 and married. Many people are so good at hiding whom they really are that you won't know until it's too late. This is the problem of one-sided thinking. Our ancestors killed one another over food. Most aren't any different today. Oh we pretend we are and deny it, but the truth is most people only want to believe they care. We watch TV, read books and actually believe fiction is real. When in reality someone, perhaps many will probably laugh at all of our funerals. Not nice to say or think, but it's the world we live in.
Next time you get advice on dating. Ask yourself. Is this just to make me easier? Whose side is this person really on? Will this make me an easy target that plays right into the hands of a smooth operator? Maybe they are too slow to figure it out themselves. Maybe they are bitter and want others to get messed up too. Everyone has their reasons.
Don't believe me? Check out these links.
How to get women into bed 25mil links isn't anything to laugh at.
How to trick women into bed
How to manipulate women
How to seduce women
How to land women
How to score women
Another I won't post the key words
Real problem is that many who fall for this are just as fake themselves and have no clue that this is the case.
Of course realizing how easy it is for people to lie and how there is no way I can really tell. Having seen just how awful people are I have never even tried to go on a date. Plus by 25 99% of everyone decent is long since taken. If for some reason they go back on the market, most know someone who has known them for years who is already ready to take them right back off it.
Welcome to earth, 3rd rock from honeysuckle.
Many guys are adept at making women feel wanted. When in truth, if you keeled over and died they would laugh about it later with friends. Giving you a coat one minute and laughing at you behind your back the next. Having grown up under a father who is this way I know full well just how fake people can be. Those who are the nicest to strangers can turn around and be the hugest ******** you have ever seen. My father pours on extra extra honey to strangers and he hit us as infants for crying. It was always strange to see people eating his bull up. Made me sick. Sure after a while people would catch on, but it’s impossible to tell until you have known someone a good while. There is no way to really tell who a person is from dating. They say it takes 2 years in a relationship to really get to know someone. Those most at ease and most comfortable probably are so because they don't give a darn how anyone other then them self feels. They have the scent of underwear and that is all that really matters to them. It seems to me like many guys look at women like vacuum cleaners and are darn good at cleaning up over and over and over. It seems like many people are so naive as to not realize that many lie in everything they do. People fool themselves into believing they can tell, when really they can't. And many lie to others and themselves and turn around and expect different treatment themselves. I guess people just need to decide if they want to feel wanted or really be wanted. The two are not always the same and sometimes complete opposites. MANY MANY guys don't give a darn about women. All they need are a few parts and for someone to let their guard down. Being wanted does not mean someone just wanting a few of your parts. To understand guys women need to understand that many guys see women like a bass. Of course women do the same thing so they can only blame themselves. Another part of the problem is people go out looking for someone “perfect” when no one is, including them selves. Deny those who are flawed, but genuine and real. And go for those who are more then likely all an act. Fall for them. Then eventually see who they really are, get confused and think because they acted such and such way they can change them. And the real kicker is those who pass up the real, but flawed people deserve it. What goes around comes around. As you do unto others so you do unto yourself. It’s strange how that really works.
An Anarchist is right. I see so many advertisements for "How to land women" like fish. Or push their buttons like a vacuum cleaner, that it's revolting. I get them in email constantly and have read several. Most guys probably have. The smoothest operators can and will say literally anything. Not because it's how they feel, but because it will get them what they want. Don't be fooled. Many times confidence is nothing more then not giving a **** about anyone other then them self. It's extremely easy for such people to fake caring. Some people are very good actors. And suckers just eat it up so sure it can't happen to them. Then deny that it just happened to them.
Take my mother for instance. My father was an angel right up to marriage. Then shortly after he threatened to kill her if she ever left him. After her giving 35 years of her life she got sick and he wanted her to hurry up and die. So he could replace her and not feel the slightest guilt. And the scary thing is people like him are COMMON, maybe even normal. My mother stayed with him because she thought he would change, she didn't get married to get divorced, and some people have it worse. I have a brother who defends him. Guess what, he is 23 and married. Many people are so good at hiding whom they really are that you won't know until it's too late. This is the problem of one-sided thinking. Our ancestors killed one another over food. Most aren't any different today. Oh we pretend we are and deny it, but the truth is most people only want to believe they care. We watch TV, read books and actually believe fiction is real. When in reality someone, perhaps many will probably laugh at all of our funerals. Not nice to say or think, but it's the world we live in.
Next time you get advice on dating. Ask yourself. Is this just to make me easier? Whose side is this person really on? Will this make me an easy target that plays right into the hands of a smooth operator? Maybe they are too slow to figure it out themselves. Maybe they are bitter and want others to get messed up too. Everyone has their reasons.
Don't believe me? Check out these links.
How to get women into bed 25mil links isn't anything to laugh at.
How to trick women into bed
How to manipulate women
How to seduce women
How to land women
How to score women
Another I won't post the key words
Real problem is that many who fall for this are just as fake themselves and have no clue that this is the case.
Of course realizing how easy it is for people to lie and how there is no way I can really tell. Having seen just how awful people are I have never even tried to go on a date. Plus by 25 99% of everyone decent is long since taken. If for some reason they go back on the market, most know someone who has known them for years who is already ready to take them right back off it.
Welcome to earth, 3rd rock from honeysuckle.
Never dated, to be clear enough. I was rejected every time )) Ah, honeysuckle happenes.
