I've roamed thru my travels feeling deaf dumb and blind...lonely. She didn't start it, but she was the catalyst for a lot of my recent behavior: After I lost her I punished myself. I had problems connecting emotionally to...everyone..my mom, sister, friends, her...everyone. I never got jealous. I never took her out... But I loved her. And she loved me.
Then ended the 5 year (4year 10month) relationship with her...Seven. Years. Ago. She was my wife (gf), future for a better tomorrow. I was her knight, her laughter, her spirit. Her Husband (bf). And together we were complete.
We separated when things got stale. I was 17 she was 18. She felt she needed a new man and carried on way sooner than I every even considered it. She asked me back a few times, but I had already began my travels. There was no place for her with at that time. About six months later she was pregnant. Later that year she was gone.
I was more lonely after that. I closed up tighter, I rationalized more about how independent I am of the known world. I separate myself from society, television, everyone, keeping only people I feel are significant in my travels (I'm military, btw). I made myself function differently than the world and now I feel I cannot get back my normalcy. I'm failing school (college), I'm losing my talented edge (drawing), as well as my confidence that I'll fully regain what I've lost over the years.
....but now she's back.
Her husband (different guy than B4) is divorcing her because he hates being second best to me, even though I havent heard from her in years. We've been talking again for a month mow...my she's very much the same...and so am I on many levels...except for the social and emotional ones.
So she wants to make it work with me again. Her and her two children (second from the husband) and they're BOTH (her and the husband) are wondering how, when, and IF I'm going to take her back. This is the love of my life. The girl of my past present and future. She's asking for my help....and I'm asking for advice.
I'm 24, no kids, never married (barely even had GFs since her) and lonely. I know I can handle her and kids. I love kids so thats not the issue...I just want to hear some other people's opinion besides my own.
Then ended the 5 year (4year 10month) relationship with her...Seven. Years. Ago. She was my wife (gf), future for a better tomorrow. I was her knight, her laughter, her spirit. Her Husband (bf). And together we were complete.
We separated when things got stale. I was 17 she was 18. She felt she needed a new man and carried on way sooner than I every even considered it. She asked me back a few times, but I had already began my travels. There was no place for her with at that time. About six months later she was pregnant. Later that year she was gone.
I was more lonely after that. I closed up tighter, I rationalized more about how independent I am of the known world. I separate myself from society, television, everyone, keeping only people I feel are significant in my travels (I'm military, btw). I made myself function differently than the world and now I feel I cannot get back my normalcy. I'm failing school (college), I'm losing my talented edge (drawing), as well as my confidence that I'll fully regain what I've lost over the years.
....but now she's back.
Her husband (different guy than B4) is divorcing her because he hates being second best to me, even though I havent heard from her in years. We've been talking again for a month mow...my she's very much the same...and so am I on many levels...except for the social and emotional ones.
So she wants to make it work with me again. Her and her two children (second from the husband) and they're BOTH (her and the husband) are wondering how, when, and IF I'm going to take her back. This is the love of my life. The girl of my past present and future. She's asking for my help....and I'm asking for advice.
I'm 24, no kids, never married (barely even had GFs since her) and lonely. I know I can handle her and kids. I love kids so thats not the issue...I just want to hear some other people's opinion besides my own.