So lonely and needing money I started onlyfans

[LolaOF29]

Why is it I did this? I want companionship and someone to talk to when I’m lonely (or horny lol). I prefer the conversation with an older man who doesn’t mess around and is more mature than most my age, and thought could make a bit of money at the same time and now because I’ve only got a couple of subscribers I’m feeling a bit honeysuckle about myself arghh I don’t know what I’m searching for by posting this but just needed to vent!!

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Get it girl

 

[LolaOF29]

Trying to seems I’m one of millions though, which is annoying because I am actually nice to talk to rather than generic p0rn posts that everyone else puts up

 

[TogetherAlone]

Apparently Onlyfans can be quite hard to start up and get going especially with the whole Covid deal messing up a lot of things so people have less money to spend in general from what I saw a good way is to use twitter and follow other people who do Onlyfans, most of them seem to do good at shouting each other out and promoting each other.

Hope you can make it work for yourself <3

 

[Finished]

Well, you can't quit now. There are lots of lonely old men out there that need to part with their money. You just have to do a better job of convincing them of that. When selling anything it's all about marketing. You might have the best product. But, if nobody knows about it, it'll just going to continue to get older and more wrinkly.

 

[LolaOF29]

Thank you for the advice! I am on Twitter and insta, but I’ve not gone public to family and friends with it just yet (if ever). Got a few fans but it’s annoying putting yourself out there. The fans that do know about me keep coming back though so I must be doing something right

 

[AFrozenSoul]

I am a very much a fan live and let live, but if I may part a few words of contemplation. First off the internet is forever. You would be surprised where you can find stuff. An office I worked for failed a special security audit because we forgot to change a setting on the copiers. So pictures, videos, words everything can be found somewhere if you look hard enough. I only say this because if your goal is something more than male attention you should stop. If you just want males to throw money at you because they think you are pretty then keep on going. However, if you eventually want to have friends or partners you might want to consider leaving. For many people only fans is a red flag. If those people find out you are on only fans they will run, distance themselves, or worse try to cross the digital barrier. Even those of us who are live and let live will be affected by this. So something to think about. All actions have consequences.

 

[Adamridge79]

I don't know much about fans for the only, only they generally require women to show less intellect and more skin. Maybe if you used a chalk/whiteboard as a prop, and assumed the persona of the 'hot' librarian, you could find a niche of lonely male nerds? Maybe throw in some honeysuckle about learning lessons, speak only when spoken to...I dunno, I'm not a all that versed in that area

 

[ardour]

Sign of the times...

You're decent looking so what is the problem here exactly. What is stopping you from meeting men and dating? That is if you are lonely, not just looking to make a buck off desperate losers who have zero choices about their loneliness.

 

[laura.leuci]

I am a very much a fan live and let live, but if I may part a few words of contemplation. First off the internet is forever. You would be surprised where you can find stuff. An office I worked for failed a special security audit because we forgot to change a setting on the copiers. So pictures, videos, words everything can be found somewhere if you look hard enough. I only say this because if your goal is something more than male attention you should stop. If you just want males to throw money at you because they think you are pretty then keep on going. However, if you eventually want to have friends or partners you might want to consider leaving. For many people only fans is a red flag. If those people find out you are on only fans they will run, distance themselves, or worse try to cross the digital barrier. Even those of us who are live and let live will be affected by this. So something to think about. All actions have consequences.

well, once upon a time , when I was into feminist things I was seeing sex work as an empowering tool for women as the world is runned by man and the relative problem of fault of sensitivity creaitivity in most of peoples life kind of thing. But that's another story. To come back to the sex work thing what u say it's very true. i once decided to pay my rent by working one night in a streap club (which I enjoyed bytheway^^) and tadaa , surprise. I was far away from my hometown , like 500km and a guy at 5 am in the morning told me exactly the little town I come from. That scared me as fresia and I took it as a strong signal. now approx. 5 years later, alone, wwith yet not a room to live and broke but my dad that keep me seeing that he's here for me and that they can help me to continue my formation for be a masseuse I am anyway repeating myself that I should open an onlyfans thing 'cause I feel so **** unstable . the cure for everything it's still love for me but it is so hard in my position to think like I deserve it plus none but myself say that to me so I don't know. I don't want to go back living to my parents place. I love 'em and they really give me white paper about things but I am not that smart to build a romantic relationship , taking care of each other, me and a man.

 

[laura.leuci]

i have a man around me lately which I respect and feel his good heart but I don't know . Something ain't right there.

 

[laura.leuci]

plus, can please someone tell me how to change my real name'

 

[TropicalStarfish]

I'm not really getting a mature vibe from a married woman with three children, who is presumably unhappy in her marriage and starting an only fans account (behind your partner's back?), claiming to want to deal with older, mature men, (which is obviously no indication of maturity.)

I don't know how you got yourself into the situation you are so unhappy with; but, surely you've had some time to consider it. Amassing wealth the way you are trying to, I would imagine, is not as easy as it seems. It can be, if you are a certain type; but, I imagine like all areas of life, there are those who succeed greatly, and there are a sea of people hoping to hit big; but, really just struggling like everyone else in life.

I think you are just trying to advertise. I don't care if you do or don't have an only fans account; that's your choice. But don't come off like you are some pinnacle of drama-free fun (having three children in an unhappy marriage and setting up a clandestine onlyfans account, is kind of the definition of drama, to some people (everyone has their problems/baggage, right?)), heh. If your story has truth to it, you prefer older men, and you've got yourself into a pickle that has lots of strings attached and lots of responsibilities. That's a tough spot to be in...

Do your best to be a good mother, and if you don't love your man, do your best to take care of yourself, and make a plan to exit that situation.

If part of that plan is doing as you are now doing; so be it. But, I'm not buying it. I'm not judging in regards to starting an onlyfans account and seeking out wealthy patronage, have at it. But, in regards to, 'maturity,' there is very little of that to go around these days, and I'm not seeing a whole lot of it on these forums, in general, and here either.

Money can solve these types of problems sometimes, though; so, good luck, in that regard.

Best of luck.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

I'm all for a woman doing whatever she wants with her body because it's her body, but as a logistically-comprehensive Manager, I'm against corporations and online media platforms that exploit this by rolling out of court avoiding a lawsuit like "It was in the Terms Of Service and Licensing Agreement when they signed up, they knew what they were agreeing to."

 

[FlynnRyder]

Why is it I did this? I want companionship and someone to talk to when I’m lonely (or horny lol). I prefer the conversation with an older man who doesn’t mess around and is more mature than most my age, and thought could make a bit of money at the same time and now because I’ve only got a couple of subscribers I’m feeling a bit honeysuckle about myself arghh I don’t know what I’m searching for by posting this but just needed to vent!!

do what makes you feel right. it's all good. hell, message me a link, i might just hit you up with a subscription once my money problems clear up.

 

[HorseLatitudes]

Even if you say you are looking to get someone to talk who is older and mature, if that conversation goes through an porn account, that so called mature man is someone who is interested in porn and young girls, sorry to be rough but that is what I would say to a friend, filter guys through porn to find a decent one to talk to is meaninless, they are in that site for a reason, also, im not "old" but I understand that people my age would primarly look at you as a possible laid so I understand that, but dont filter our generation as horny and dumb, generalisms are always wrong, good luck wit your site, I believe it must be hard to maje money with so many free porn but still, there are hard days and money doesnt grows on trees