HappyYogi
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I just got back from a group bike ride. It was fun. The people were friendly and nice and I had a couple of nice conversations, too!
I guess what I want to say that often (but not all the time) loneliness is due to simply not having enough opportunities to chat/be with others.
I had just joined this bike group because I wanted to share my biking with others and meet others who bike. Well, so far I have! I've met other women in my age who like to bike and it's fun. I can't tell you how much fun it's been to chat with other women about biking, bike clothes, etc. Fun, fun, fun!
So now that I am in this group, if I want, every week I can join a ride and get some social interaction.
Much better than in the near past when most Saturdays would be alone leaving me somewhat isolated.
If you are a lone and you don't want to be lonely, you have to make the effort to go out there and be around others. And it's always good if the group matches at least in some way who you are, that way you can more easily make connections.
Like today...I met a woman and we had a great conversation about making our own healthy dog food. She is going to email me later. Another gal wanted to know the place that sells used bikes. Told me to email her. I even got some "Merry Christmas" hugs!
Going regularly helps, too. You become a regular and they slowly get to know you.
Anyways Merry Christmas OR Happy Holidays you all! Peace and blessings. May you have a New Year with love, friendship and joy.
I guess what I want to say that often (but not all the time) loneliness is due to simply not having enough opportunities to chat/be with others.
I had just joined this bike group because I wanted to share my biking with others and meet others who bike. Well, so far I have! I've met other women in my age who like to bike and it's fun. I can't tell you how much fun it's been to chat with other women about biking, bike clothes, etc. Fun, fun, fun!
So now that I am in this group, if I want, every week I can join a ride and get some social interaction.
Much better than in the near past when most Saturdays would be alone leaving me somewhat isolated.
If you are a lone and you don't want to be lonely, you have to make the effort to go out there and be around others. And it's always good if the group matches at least in some way who you are, that way you can more easily make connections.
Like today...I met a woman and we had a great conversation about making our own healthy dog food. She is going to email me later. Another gal wanted to know the place that sells used bikes. Told me to email her. I even got some "Merry Christmas" hugs!
Going regularly helps, too. You become a regular and they slowly get to know you.
Anyways Merry Christmas OR Happy Holidays you all! Peace and blessings. May you have a New Year with love, friendship and joy.