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[Brody]

Hello again!

There has been some situations earlier this year that got me a whole house in a country side. Just for me. Right after my ex girlfriend left for school (and then forever) so now for 4 months I live alone. Ok...got a few cats and a huge furry dog. So...not so alone. For first month I hated be alone in house for a long time. So right after work I used to go to my friends for coffee and talk to somebody. I wont deny it happened quite often. So by the time-they started to show that they don't wanna see me around. Another happy place is college once in week. But due to long illness I couldn't go there. So...everything there is in a downfall. During this time I started to renovate my house. Sadly I have to do it by my self. Not really an expert in this field. Learning.
But sometimes I just feel empty, sad and have no I idea where to go. Kinda dead end.
I have to face empty and cold home after work and no warm dish. But I'm getting use to it. I'm even thinking:no more girlfriends.
And that's how I started to live alone. I'm 21.

How you started to live alone?

 

[constant stranger]

21 is a good age. Having a house of your own is a good thing. It's a little soon to be giving up on any more girlfriends. As you learn house remodeling skills, learn how to cook too and consider hosting a dinner (that you've already practiced on and know how it's going to turn out!) for people......and show off your work-in-progress house.

Seems like a good way to start up some kind of social life.

It's just an idea.......

 

[ladyforsaken]

I wish I got a whole house to myself. Lucky you.

I don't have good advice about socialising, I pretty much suck at it myself. But no warm dish? Are you unable to heat up your food or something?

 

[Seeker_2.0]

I moved in my cabin in the woods earlier this year too and I'm now convinced that, if i'm ever somehow forced to live in a city again, i'll hang myself. Nothing beats fresh air, nature and the absence of noisy people....and noise....and people

 

[ladyforsaken]

I moved in my cabin in the woods earlier this year too and I'm now convinced that, if i'm ever somehow forced to live in a city again, i'll hang myself. Nothing beats fresh air, nature and the absence of noisy people....and noise....and people

I have always wanted something like this for myself. That is so cool you get to have move into a cabin in the woods. :0

 

[Nuzzy Nuz]

I moved in my cabin in the woods earlier this year too and I'm now convinced that, if i'm ever somehow forced to live in a city again, i'll hang myself. Nothing beats fresh air, nature and the absence of noisy people....and noise....and people

No cabin but still that is kinda life am living

 

[Brody]

I wish I got a whole house to myself. Lucky you.

I don't have good advice about socialising, I pretty much suck at it myself. But no warm dish? Are you unable to heat up your food or something?

Ofcourse I'm able to cook and I do it every day. But you know-at those dark days, it's seems sad, when no one is waiting. That's all there is- sad feeling.

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I moved in my cabin in the woods earlier this year too and I'm now convinced that, if i'm ever somehow forced to live in a city again, i'll hang myself. Nothing beats fresh air, nature and the absence of noisy people....and noise....and people

True. Cant image my self living in the city. My house is remote fom anything. Woods around. A very few know where I live. Althought closest town is 8 km. Not so bad.

 

[Nicolelt]

I love living in a house by myself with a bunch of animals.

I left college and an apartment full of roommates to get a teaching job 3 hours away from home. I live in a small town, and love it.

 

[SophiaGrace]

I love living in a house by myself with a bunch of animals.

I left college and an apartment full of roommates to get a teaching job 3 hours away from home. I live in a small town, and love it.

Yes it's amazing how much you appreciate being alone after having roomates hogging the bathroom or too many people in too small a space that you all have to share and suffer through each other's proclivity's for wanting light, schedules that don't match up and preferences for room temperature that aren't the same as yours.

It's a marvel people don't go mad in such situations.