I have a hard time making friends period, but every once in awhile I connect with someone, and I make a friend, but it only seems to be with other dudes. I never have the same luck with girls, I swear sometimes weeks go by without me talking to a girl for more than 30 seconds. I have tried everything I possibly could think of. i go to bars and there is not even any girls there.
I think it is the physical location of where I am at, like whether I am at work or school or a club or anything, im never put in a position where it is easy to meet a variety of compatible women. the last situation like that was high school. i have friends and coworkers who seem to have more success with the opposite sex than I do, but the number one difference is they seem to be in a healthy social environment (which i am not) so they don't have to try too hard - it just comes naturally to them.
That is the problem when you are a social outcast, problems seem to compound each other until things get out of control.
I think it is the physical location of where I am at, like whether I am at work or school or a club or anything, im never put in a position where it is easy to meet a variety of compatible women. the last situation like that was high school. i have friends and coworkers who seem to have more success with the opposite sex than I do, but the number one difference is they seem to be in a healthy social environment (which i am not) so they don't have to try too hard - it just comes naturally to them.
That is the problem when you are a social outcast, problems seem to compound each other until things get out of control.