Hello!
So this is about taking your girl out to the clubs when you're not equipped with the highest social intelligence.
My girl (of 1.5 months, also my first real relationship. I'm 22) and I went to a nightclub >two weeks after we met. We got pretty drunk, I was aware of my surroundings but she had a hard time standing. Bad idea! Anyway. The night was really fun until we sat down at a table where one of her friends was. At the table was also another guy, who immediately started hitting on her; to me it was pretty obvious. He was a very smooth guy. All the while I was just sitting there, pretending to be in the conversation. I felt helpless, and I sometimes just suck at conversation, like at that time.
I sensed there were rapport building, and when we left I heard him call out her name but I pretended like nothing. Tried to rush away as fast as possible, really. It was awful, makes me feel sick to my stomach.
Anyway. How can you handle situations like these?
So this is about taking your girl out to the clubs when you're not equipped with the highest social intelligence.
My girl (of 1.5 months, also my first real relationship. I'm 22) and I went to a nightclub >two weeks after we met. We got pretty drunk, I was aware of my surroundings but she had a hard time standing. Bad idea! Anyway. The night was really fun until we sat down at a table where one of her friends was. At the table was also another guy, who immediately started hitting on her; to me it was pretty obvious. He was a very smooth guy. All the while I was just sitting there, pretending to be in the conversation. I felt helpless, and I sometimes just suck at conversation, like at that time.
I sensed there were rapport building, and when we left I heard him call out her name but I pretended like nothing. Tried to rush away as fast as possible, really. It was awful, makes me feel sick to my stomach.
Anyway. How can you handle situations like these?