cool_breeze
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Hello. This is how I see things these days with regards to love and sex. You have the one night stand/hookup people. You have some people in relationships where the people are really used to each other. It doesn't seem like true love, more like the people are just comfortable with each other so they stick with it. I seem to hold out for true love, which seems much less common than these other 2 categories. So what's the solution? I want to change this. I don't see what the point of having sex with someone is if you aren't going to talk to them again. If I have sex with someone I want to at least be friends. A true one night stand seems like it can lead to even more loneliness. But the common comfort relationship doesn't do much for me either. It's kind of better than nothing but it leaves you wanting more. So you feel lonely also. But true love--the real thing--seems so rare. So what are you supposed to do about your needs for love and sex? Maybe I'm more particular about this than many people but this is how I see things basically. You guys have some ideas?