Jesse
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Hello my friends. Recently I have discovered power. Power from within myself. Power to overcome fear. I honestly believe that's the key problem we all face. We're afraid of... something. Perhaps we're all afraid of something different, but whatever that fear is, we need to overcome it.
So this is my challenge. Every time FEAR tells you not to do something, do the opposite of what FEAR says. (Unless it's a logical fear, such as not wanting to jump in front of a car. Please don't do anything stupid. ) I wan't you to do the opposite of illogical fear.
For example: My pet store incident. I went to a pet store and was intimidated by a female employee there. FEAR told me to never go back to that store. That fear was illogical. I had nothing to worry about. I had nothing to lose. My fear was that I'd seem awkward, but the truth is I'd be awkward because I was afraid to be myself. I decided to do the opposite of that fear. I went back to that pet store. I didn't run into that girl again, but I've been back several times since then. I know eventually I'll probably see her again. If I do I plan to engage conversation with her should our paths cross.
First you must recognize your illogical fears. Secondly you must decide that it is time not to live in fear. Decide you will not allow illogical fear to influence your decisions. Thirdly, start small. Take little steps. Tackle the small fears first and move up to the biggest things you're afraid of.
You can do it.
So this is my challenge. Every time FEAR tells you not to do something, do the opposite of what FEAR says. (Unless it's a logical fear, such as not wanting to jump in front of a car. Please don't do anything stupid. ) I wan't you to do the opposite of illogical fear.
For example: My pet store incident. I went to a pet store and was intimidated by a female employee there. FEAR told me to never go back to that store. That fear was illogical. I had nothing to worry about. I had nothing to lose. My fear was that I'd seem awkward, but the truth is I'd be awkward because I was afraid to be myself. I decided to do the opposite of that fear. I went back to that pet store. I didn't run into that girl again, but I've been back several times since then. I know eventually I'll probably see her again. If I do I plan to engage conversation with her should our paths cross.
First you must recognize your illogical fears. Secondly you must decide that it is time not to live in fear. Decide you will not allow illogical fear to influence your decisions. Thirdly, start small. Take little steps. Tackle the small fears first and move up to the biggest things you're afraid of.
You can do it.