PlayingSolo
Well-known member
There's only two things I can think of that I want out of my life: knowledge and love.
The first one is easy and simple. I'm going to school, studying mathematics. (disclaimer: this paragraph isn't meant to be me bragging. I realize math is a hard subject for many people) There isn't a field out there more fascinating than mathematics. I'm still an undergraduate and have much to learn, but I'm having such a blast soaking in all of this knowledge. I'm planning on going to graduate school next year. It's not just the math though. Simply being at a university with so many like-minded individuals waiting to be fed with knowledge is truly wondrous. I don't really talk to many people while I'm at school, I just try to enjoy it regardless (i have social anxiety, but that's a different issue from this post).
The second one is not so easy. Finding love is like trying to catch air in your hands. And even harder for someone with social anxiety. This is an issue that's been plaguing me for years. I found my first (and only) girlfriend about 3 years ago, and it lasted for almost one year. We realized we weren't right for each other, and that was that. But it left me with this yearning to have someone by my side. I think that's when my loneliness really amplified. Before I met her, I hardly thought about girls and having a girlfriend was the last thing on my mind. Honestly I never even considered it. But now I can't go a single day without wondering when I'll find that special someone.
So lately I've somewhat given up In the whole love department. Sure, there's that one girl I've been posting about in another thread, but I won't get into that here. My point of this thread is that I think the only thing really keeping me going lately is my passion for mathematics. Honestly its the only reason I have for getting out of bed these days. Yes, I have a job, but it's not one I would miss if I were to quit. I actually enjoy it sometimes because of the social interaction I get with customers and coworkers. Yes, I have a few friends and some family. Oddly enough, I've never felt a very stronge connection with any friend I've made, and I'm a bit ashamed of that. It's kind of like, if I never saw the person again, my life would go on. That's a horrible thing to say. Some of these friends one known for most of my life, but I get the feeling that they value our friendship more than I do. I'm really not sure why it is. Maybe I'm just incapable of feeling that strongly toward someone. As far as family goes, I have my parents, two brothers and a sister. Any extended family that I have has made such little impact on my life that I never developed much feelings for them. But I do love my immediate family, even though I'm somewhat distant from them nowadays.
I'm not suicidal or anything. I've never even considered it or had suicidal thoughts, nor do I have any desire to die. But honestly, if not for my love for education, I really don't think I would see any reason for getting out of bed every morning. Like I said, not that I would kill myself because of it, I just wouldn't really see any point in living. I suppose there's the off chance that I could be walking down the street and happen to meet the girl I'm destined to fall in love with. But that seems very unlikely.
I think the worst part is that no one in my life would suspect any of this from me. At work, I'm known to be this cheery, happy go lucky nerd without a care in the world. At school, I'm just the quiet, weird kid sitting in the corner. At home, I tend to avoid my parents, but I know they wouldn't suspect this from me. And my friends just think I'm the smart guy who's constantly busy with work or school (personally I don't think I'm all that smart. Their words, not mine). I don't think there's a person who knows me that wouldn't be shocked about the inner turmoil I've had for the past few years. I don't really let it show to anyone, and I don't dare tell anyone about it irl. Like I said, I'm no where close to suicidal. But there's been a few (rare) nights where I've felt so Dang lonely or depressed.
I'm not really sure why I typed all of this up. I've been feeling kind of down lately. Not really depressed or lonely, maybe just stressed out and not really all that happy. Maybe its just been building up inside and I felt I needed to tell someone. But as long as I don't run out of math to learn, I think I'll be content for a while.
The first one is easy and simple. I'm going to school, studying mathematics. (disclaimer: this paragraph isn't meant to be me bragging. I realize math is a hard subject for many people) There isn't a field out there more fascinating than mathematics. I'm still an undergraduate and have much to learn, but I'm having such a blast soaking in all of this knowledge. I'm planning on going to graduate school next year. It's not just the math though. Simply being at a university with so many like-minded individuals waiting to be fed with knowledge is truly wondrous. I don't really talk to many people while I'm at school, I just try to enjoy it regardless (i have social anxiety, but that's a different issue from this post).
The second one is not so easy. Finding love is like trying to catch air in your hands. And even harder for someone with social anxiety. This is an issue that's been plaguing me for years. I found my first (and only) girlfriend about 3 years ago, and it lasted for almost one year. We realized we weren't right for each other, and that was that. But it left me with this yearning to have someone by my side. I think that's when my loneliness really amplified. Before I met her, I hardly thought about girls and having a girlfriend was the last thing on my mind. Honestly I never even considered it. But now I can't go a single day without wondering when I'll find that special someone.
So lately I've somewhat given up In the whole love department. Sure, there's that one girl I've been posting about in another thread, but I won't get into that here. My point of this thread is that I think the only thing really keeping me going lately is my passion for mathematics. Honestly its the only reason I have for getting out of bed these days. Yes, I have a job, but it's not one I would miss if I were to quit. I actually enjoy it sometimes because of the social interaction I get with customers and coworkers. Yes, I have a few friends and some family. Oddly enough, I've never felt a very stronge connection with any friend I've made, and I'm a bit ashamed of that. It's kind of like, if I never saw the person again, my life would go on. That's a horrible thing to say. Some of these friends one known for most of my life, but I get the feeling that they value our friendship more than I do. I'm really not sure why it is. Maybe I'm just incapable of feeling that strongly toward someone. As far as family goes, I have my parents, two brothers and a sister. Any extended family that I have has made such little impact on my life that I never developed much feelings for them. But I do love my immediate family, even though I'm somewhat distant from them nowadays.
I'm not suicidal or anything. I've never even considered it or had suicidal thoughts, nor do I have any desire to die. But honestly, if not for my love for education, I really don't think I would see any reason for getting out of bed every morning. Like I said, not that I would kill myself because of it, I just wouldn't really see any point in living. I suppose there's the off chance that I could be walking down the street and happen to meet the girl I'm destined to fall in love with. But that seems very unlikely.
I think the worst part is that no one in my life would suspect any of this from me. At work, I'm known to be this cheery, happy go lucky nerd without a care in the world. At school, I'm just the quiet, weird kid sitting in the corner. At home, I tend to avoid my parents, but I know they wouldn't suspect this from me. And my friends just think I'm the smart guy who's constantly busy with work or school (personally I don't think I'm all that smart. Their words, not mine). I don't think there's a person who knows me that wouldn't be shocked about the inner turmoil I've had for the past few years. I don't really let it show to anyone, and I don't dare tell anyone about it irl. Like I said, I'm no where close to suicidal. But there's been a few (rare) nights where I've felt so Dang lonely or depressed.
I'm not really sure why I typed all of this up. I've been feeling kind of down lately. Not really depressed or lonely, maybe just stressed out and not really all that happy. Maybe its just been building up inside and I felt I needed to tell someone. But as long as I don't run out of math to learn, I think I'll be content for a while.