Tiina63 said:
I would also spend time with you if we lived near each other. I don't know what to say to console you as I am equally as alone as you are. Is there anything social going on by you which you could join?
Monday night I went karayoke with a couple of girl friends and I had a good time. I've taken up bike riding on the weekends, I do that alone but when I'm bike riding I'm happy whether alone or with someone because it's something I enjoy, then I have lunch or dinner in Pacific Beach. And I love yummy japanese food. I simply date myself and make the best of it. And I was fine last Saturday. But it doesn't change the coming home after work blues during the week. It's a secret I keep to myself because I take so much pride in my independence.
But this state of being alone and depressed, when I'm feeling it, it's like a torture to be alive. I'm strong enough to stay alive in spite of it but if things were to stay the same 10 years from now, I don't know.
I called in sick to work today. On Monday night when I went out I only got 2 hours of sleep and went to work Tuesday. But the next 3 nights I didn't get enough sleep due to depression so I didn't recover from Monday night. So now I'm not going to work on Thursday. I was supposed to have a date sometime this week but he flaked, which turned out to be a real dissappointment, he should have told me he is not interested instead of "Let's get together sometime next week" but I don't want to let men get me down.