I don't know if I'm posting this in the right topic, as it isn't a rant/depressed topic of myself, but rather a question.
I realized that sometimes people want to make friends with some people. I even experienced that there were some people who really wanted to be friends with me, or simply didn't mind to be friends at the beginning. Everything is great - you may say -, you have a new aquintance, they even want your attention, they are interested in you, your personality and your overall feelings and howabouts (not everything, but "basic" details). The same goes for you, they are willingly tell some details (not too much, but a few), if you're lucky, they may even tell you some info about themselves that only a few knows.
THEN, they just leave. Without a word. They either don't enjoy talking to you anymore, don't want to speak to you, or sometimes, more radically, they move on and sometimes even "delete" you from their lives (this can be literally true if they're deleting from, for example, their Facebook page).
I actually experienced MANY of these, and actually I don't mind if people come and leave in my life... I simply don't understand two things:
1. If they don't want anything "more serious" than just a casual aquintance relationship, why do they even bother making programmes with you at the beginning, asking about you and telling about them some details?
2. Why people actually leave an other person? What (in your opinion) are the most common reasons why people just decide to leave you alone?
And, of course, if you have any experiences about this, or other questions, feel free to comment about it!
I realized that sometimes people want to make friends with some people. I even experienced that there were some people who really wanted to be friends with me, or simply didn't mind to be friends at the beginning. Everything is great - you may say -, you have a new aquintance, they even want your attention, they are interested in you, your personality and your overall feelings and howabouts (not everything, but "basic" details). The same goes for you, they are willingly tell some details (not too much, but a few), if you're lucky, they may even tell you some info about themselves that only a few knows.
THEN, they just leave. Without a word. They either don't enjoy talking to you anymore, don't want to speak to you, or sometimes, more radically, they move on and sometimes even "delete" you from their lives (this can be literally true if they're deleting from, for example, their Facebook page).
I actually experienced MANY of these, and actually I don't mind if people come and leave in my life... I simply don't understand two things:
1. If they don't want anything "more serious" than just a casual aquintance relationship, why do they even bother making programmes with you at the beginning, asking about you and telling about them some details?
2. Why people actually leave an other person? What (in your opinion) are the most common reasons why people just decide to leave you alone?
And, of course, if you have any experiences about this, or other questions, feel free to comment about it!