-I had a husband for ten years
-We divorced last Christmas, we share the kids 50-50
-I was devastated, he lost his passion, it was over, but we tried again recently, then it was over again
-I met a guy in another city
-He asked me 'am I your rebound?'
-I said no
-He was very shy and inexperienced
-He asked me 'did you ever get back with him?'
-I said no (it was a lie, because I did)
-He found out, things blew up, I avoided the situation like the plague
-He was forgiving and sweet, I felt relief that I got away with it
-I had told him I had no secrets (more lies from me)
-Things weren't the same, I withdrew because I'm an a-hole
-He became insecure about our relationship
-I accepted his insecurities and promised I'd be there for him (or so I said)
-He was sweet, took lots of time to pay attention to me
-I wasn't so sweet, lied and said I didn't always have the freedom to talk because of the kids
-I made lots of promises to this sweet guy
-He believed them all, had no reason not to trust me
-I felt overwhelmed with work, ex and kids so I often took it out on him by not calling him back
-He got upset, said I was neglecting the relationship (he was right)
-I am emotionally immature and too stubborn (I know it) so instead of talking to him about it, I ignored the situation until it blew up and he wanted nothing more to do with me
-But because he's sweet, he still called me to ask if I was okay
-I ignored the call and never contacted him again
-I hurt him and I didn't have to
-I don't think I can change, I heard he has another girl already and I missed the boat
That's why I'm an a-hole
the end
-We divorced last Christmas, we share the kids 50-50
-I was devastated, he lost his passion, it was over, but we tried again recently, then it was over again
-I met a guy in another city
-He asked me 'am I your rebound?'
-I said no
-He was very shy and inexperienced
-He asked me 'did you ever get back with him?'
-I said no (it was a lie, because I did)
-He found out, things blew up, I avoided the situation like the plague
-He was forgiving and sweet, I felt relief that I got away with it
-I had told him I had no secrets (more lies from me)
-Things weren't the same, I withdrew because I'm an a-hole
-He became insecure about our relationship
-I accepted his insecurities and promised I'd be there for him (or so I said)
-He was sweet, took lots of time to pay attention to me
-I wasn't so sweet, lied and said I didn't always have the freedom to talk because of the kids
-I made lots of promises to this sweet guy
-He believed them all, had no reason not to trust me
-I felt overwhelmed with work, ex and kids so I often took it out on him by not calling him back
-He got upset, said I was neglecting the relationship (he was right)
-I am emotionally immature and too stubborn (I know it) so instead of talking to him about it, I ignored the situation until it blew up and he wanted nothing more to do with me
-But because he's sweet, he still called me to ask if I was okay
-I ignored the call and never contacted him again
-I hurt him and I didn't have to
-I don't think I can change, I heard he has another girl already and I missed the boat
That's why I'm an a-hole
the end