Restless soul
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I couldn't thing of a good title, but this is along the lines of a post I made months back it ties in to that category. Which about to keep communicating with someone who I feel gave me the brush off. Let me get the the point. I have trouble being succinct. I was friends with a woman, she was not a girlfriend and we didn't date. We met on that idea, but we turned out to be better friends. Anyway we hung out from time and she didn't seem to make an effort. But she did respond to my texts in a very short replies.
And I decided after my last text which was 3 months ago now to not reply if she didn't. So it was radio silence from then on. I remember my text clearly. I told her I was at a store .trying to make chit chat. And she didn't reply even though there were many ways to reply to what I stated.
I decided to use that as a test type thing to see if I got a reply. And nothing .
What I am really trying to say, is it ok to go with my confrontational nature which wants me to call her on it. Ask her why she didn't reply? You see i found that rude I was annoyed . I know I am going to get a lot of answers saying that I should take the hint. Etcm. Etc..But is this really the approach for these things, to say fu*ck it. Who cares? When a part of me wants to say whats your deal? Why the cold shoulder ?
And I decided after my last text which was 3 months ago now to not reply if she didn't. So it was radio silence from then on. I remember my text clearly. I told her I was at a store .trying to make chit chat. And she didn't reply even though there were many ways to reply to what I stated.
I decided to use that as a test type thing to see if I got a reply. And nothing .
What I am really trying to say, is it ok to go with my confrontational nature which wants me to call her on it. Ask her why she didn't reply? You see i found that rude I was annoyed . I know I am going to get a lot of answers saying that I should take the hint. Etcm. Etc..But is this really the approach for these things, to say fu*ck it. Who cares? When a part of me wants to say whats your deal? Why the cold shoulder ?