Trying to find a thread / post

[Firefly]

Don't know if anyone can help me but I've been trying to find a particular thread. Unfortunately I haven't got much in the way of details.

I just recall a post where someone was talking about difficulties making friends when he/she were themselves. When they spoke their mind it didn't seem to go down very well. However, when they forced themselves to not be so outspoken and to be a bit more 'bland', people told them they hadn't realised they were such a cool person.

I hope I'm not misrepresenting the post and that someone may recognise what I'm taking about ! It's just that someone said something to me the other day that really chimed and reminded me of this.

Thanks

 

[Sci-Fi]

Oh I think I know what thread you are talking about, that sounds very familiar. There's probably quite a few of those on here. How long ago was this thread?

 

[Firefly]

Not sure, but I would guess about 3 or 4 weeks ago.