Went to strip club to explore female physical intimacy, anyone can relate?

[JHK]

I haven't been where you are. I was something of a man whore, though I settled a bit because it would be nice to be something more then a quick romp. But I sometimes think there is something wrong with me because I absolutely detest strip clubs. Why not enjoy the scenery? But I can't.

I haven't ever paid an escort, and I don't really care if people do - it's your life to do as you will. I am sure though, that most escort services test their ladies weekly - I am not sure how much you'd have to worry about catching something. Odds are it'd be just as likely as from a stranger you pick up in a bar as an escort. I don't think you'd ever find an emotional attachment when they are just doing a job.
There are worse ways to deal with male hormones.

 

[Somnambulist]

just wish I could locate a man (male strip club?) for some physicality.

-Teresa

Just curious - were you able to locate a man ?

 

[dd11]

I am not a man so I can only give you my opinion. Personally, i think that doing this is going to stunt your emotional development with women. First of all, you are wasting your time and money. And, you are setting up false and unrealistic expectations of what a real, honest to God woman in real life is. I think you would be better to spend your time engaging in life in a way that is healthy. And, putting yourself out there in the world to actually meet people. Think about it.

 

[sothatwasmylife]

Well I guess if you were to opt for a sex worker the experience is going to be unpredictable as they are simply people doing a job ..some will be more skilled or able to provide a comfortable and positive experience and others not...but obviously neither will be likely to engage with a client in any emotional depth...On the upside they are unlikely to make your life a living hell, constantly place you under pressure, make you wish you were dead on a regular basis and refuse any sexual activity that they may have the slightest reservations about that's your girlfriend's job

 

[Celt]

Well it looks to me like you are finding out what you like by being brave enough to get out there alone. How you do that is up to you. Don't be afraid to listen to your heart and enjoy yourself.

By the way I'm 49 and have never had a female nibble my ear (or the other thing you mentioned) so you're already + 1 on me haha.