I've had plenty of precious moments in my life....
My daughter Tiffany used to sit on the front steps of the house and wait for me to come home from work
almost everyday. She would run up to me and give me hug. I'd pick her up and carry her in my arms before I'm
even our of my car.
After a long day at work with screaming bosses and demanding customers...seeing her laughter and smile made my day.
Somedays I would put her on my lap and take her for a ride on our go-kart (she would have our helmets ready.lol)
Other times I'd just hold her in my arms and rock back and forth on her swing set as we both watch the sunset together.
On some mornings...I'd awkening to my two daughter jumping on my bed, luaghing, smiling and giggling.
I remember coming home very tired and fustrated from my job...I had a very, very bad day at work.
I also remember Tiffany telling me she too have had a bad day that day at school.
Then she told me this......(she was only 6 years old at that time)
" its dosn't matter, as long as we love each other, thats what important. I love you very much"
Tiffany is a young woman now. She has a lot of challenges in life and trying to be an adult.
Whatever pains or heartaches she was experincing, she hasnt forgotten who she truely is and what's important.
After being seperated for 12 years becuase her mother and I broke up, we contacted each other.
Tiffany tells me that she loves me.
I love her very, very much.
As long we love each other ...that's what important.
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The day I met Jenni in person. I've spoken to Jenni for almost a year previousely.
She made home made cupcakes for me. She also brought her diary of her childhood.
It had everything personal about her in it...of all her hopes and dreams and even her favorite ryhmes.
She actaully open it and showed me everything .All of her journalling and secrets.
The cupcakes touch me becuase for the first time in a long time someone actaully took time to do something for me.
She baked them with love...That's was her nick name I used to call her...
She totally blew my mind...She was stundingly beautiful in person on the inside and outside.
She used to tell me this all the time "How do we get there?"
At first it went completely over my head of what she was actaully saying to me.
Even the last night I spent with her, she told me the samething" how do we get to that piont, Michael?"
Most of time i was thinking to myself...errr, wtf???? why is this beautiful babe wants anything to do with me...
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Well.....just recently.
After 20 years of not hearing from my ex-wf....
She calls me everymorning just to talk to me. Just hearing her vioce makes my day.
It's alot more to it than that....
In my last long term relationship...my ex-gf left me for dead after I got laid off from a company I've been with for almost 18 years.
It made me feel like trash that was used and abuse and thrown away....
I told my ex-wf that I was umemployed...
My ex-wf reminded me...that when she asked me out. I didn't have a dime my name. She loves me and it wasn't about the money.
Besides...a bounch of guys was hitting on her but she asked me out. She totally blew my mind...
Not in a million years did I expect her to be helping me get through some challenges in my life today...
Not in a million years did I expect her to call me everyday today and tells me that she loves me very much...
Out of all the people in this world, it's my ex-wf that's encouraging me and giving me hope.
I'm employ today.
