What Would you do?

[Jesse]

My friend is in a situation where there are 2 women after him. Woman A has a boyfriend and a child with the bf. Woman B is single, but is going to a party school far away soon. They both want milk and cookies. B told him she loves him and would want a relationship. He doesn't know if A wants a relationship or just milk n cookies.

What should he do? I told him he should stay away from both of them.

 

[Brian]

Your friend needs to stop showering and swap his wardrobe for a single large black garbage bag with holes for the arms and head. Eat lots of garlic. Wear only one shoe.

Problem solved.

 

[Jesse]

"No...man, don't do that..She'll think your a retarded."
-The enigmatic Lonesome Crow

lol

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Gold figure both of you would runaway from nookie...err
You're both just be too good for nookie

I'd personally do the single chick like there's no tomorrow.
Give her a time of her life and love every single second of it.
She'll always remember me no matter what for better or for worst.
No regrets , no guilt , no shame. Be in the moment with her and just do it.
Who knows ..I might fall in love with her.
Neve the less..I will have good memories of her and the good time in my life.
Those memories of her will carry me through the hard times in my life.
I would know..life wasn't all bad
I would know..I had lived.

Instead of standing on the sidelines ...like some poeple

When I get old... I will have a story to tell my children or grand children about
that one beautiful women I fell in love with as a young man ..when I was young,
wild and free...That life wasn't all bad. That life has so much love and beauty in
it if I allow myself to live it and experince.

You want to hear about a beautiful babe I fell in love with in the summer of 85?.lol
See..I can listen to this song becuase it had a special meanings to me...It's beautiful.
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[Jesse]

But the single girl said she loves him. He doesn't want a relationship because he's afraid that when she goes to the party school she won't be faithful. I don't blame him and since she loves him, she wants more than just sex. The school is long distance.

I'm not afraid of nookie, I just think I'd be depressed if I hooked up with people and we never had any kind of relationship.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

IDk...what to say. Living in Fear...Fear...fear sucks ass..I guess.

It's what I would do...my experince from my life..
My hs gf died on me..it made an impression in my thinking.
I miss her sometime..but she was mine for a while.
Just like when Jenni died last year...She was mine for a while.
I don't take life for granted anymore.
It didn't turned out right or according to my plans or thinking no matter ...Just saying
Whateve the fresia that's in my head...well, life wasn't what I thought.

At least I didn't totally missed it. I spent a summer with Lisa just being in love
with her. I have very wonderful memerise of us living , luaghing and enjoying life.
She spent a month just hanging out at the beach.
I remember walking and playing on the beach with her..She wanted to dig clams to cook for dinner.
I remember laying on the rock with her bating in the sun as the surf hits the shore line.
I remember playing air hokey with her in an arcade.
I remember driving in the mountains and walking on a trail with her.
I remember going to the drive in with her...I can't remember the movie.
I remember just laying on a park bench strairing into her eyes and playing with her long beautiful.
I remember she wanted us both to runaway...runaway from it all ..becuase the world was tearing us apart. (The fucken rights and wrongs.)
I remember holding her ever so tightly as she cried her heart out.

Some peaple might not like the way I lived and the many women I had in my life. Well, that's too fucken bad...
I lived it for what it was. There were alot of things that was beyound my control.
I was scared shitless too. Surely , I didn't marred my wife with the plans of deviocing her.
I have many, many good memories of my ex-wf...more good memories than I have with Lisa.
Just as I have many, many good memories of my ex-gf..if I can see beyound my anger towards her.
I spent more days having good times with my ex-gf than bad...And I sure as hell didn't plan on being single today.

 

[Jesse]

Sounds like heartache to me.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Yes...so. Sounded like alot of Love to me too.

For years and years...people wanted the love that I had..the relationships that I had..
Yeah, I was one of those guys you see happy with a gf for years and years and years.

None of that flash in the pan stuff...
Better to had lost at love than too had never loved at all.

Better than having memories of staring at the four fucken walls...


At least I lived...Fear didn't totally controlled me.
I rolled the dice and let the chip fall where they may...
I played the field..I didn't stand on the side line and go ...holy honeysuckle that hurts..

Dude...didn't you at least play football in HS..
You know how many times I got knocked on my ass ???
I fucken get up and play through the pains...

It wasn't my fucken plans Jenni died ...err wtf ???

The BiGgest Chance you'll take is not to take a Chance...
You can drop dead or get hitted my a truck tommorrow...You might not make it to 2012..lmao

 

[Jesse]

I just think I'll find the girl I'm looking for eventually and I'll know it's right.

That loved and lost thing is bullcrap. Being alone hurts a lot less than getting your heart broken.

And there was only about 45 people in high school, half of them were girls. We didn't have enough people for a football team.

 

[Divinitywolf]

Stay away from both of them...it'll only end in pain.

The wait may make the relationship he has in future, all the more special.

 

[cheaptrickfan]

What should he do? I told him he should stay away from both of them.

He should listen to your advice. They're both trouble for different reasons.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I just think I'll find the girl I'm looking for eventually and I'll know it's right.

That loved and lost thing is bullcrap. Being alone hurts a lot less than getting your heart broken.

I think peaple make excuses and let fears rule their life.
Afriad to get out of thier comfortzone. Afraid of failing,
afriad of making mistakes, afriad of taking chances. Afriad of living
Afriad of love.

well...when I got married. I think that puts her in a status of
"The love of my life"...somewhere in the realm of Mrs. Right.
I belive I love her more than life itself. I took a vow to love
her no matter what on the alter before GOD
I bended over backwards, fought tooth and nail, foregave nad foregave,
got on my hands and knees and prayed everynight to prevent a deviorced.
Sometimes I wish I don't know things that I know today.
Fucken Lawer's fees sucks ass too...lol

I don't think when my gf died was bullshit. It ripped my a new
fucken ass-hole. It wasn't like as if I got up oneday and say...
"geez the fucken wheeezzz I'm fucken bored...how about
ripping out my fucken for some excitement".

There's no garantee in life...that's a garantee.