Triple Bogey said:
ABrokenMan said:
3 years alone is nothing. Not very long in my life situation.
I wish that time span was the only gap from one relationship to the next.
People don't want to hear it, but it is painfully true - there is not someone for everyone.
So true. Some people for whatever reason have no chance.
There are probably no apparent reasons. It just is.
What's wrong with me for example ?
If it's nothing to do with looks then it must be personality. So what's that say about me ? I am a awful person ? I am boring ? What is it ?
sometimes, it's not about us. sometimes it's about the other person and, well, luck.
You wont match with every person, and sadly some people are unlucky and get all the wrong people, people they never match with or people they do, but not enough (breakups, divorces). Finding a person in the right time, or the right person, means nothing. IMO, for a succesfull relationship you need the right person the right time. Some people are so unlucky that they get a spree of the wrong people and some get so tired and hurt that give up.
This kind of unlucky people is the one that I personaly belong to, and I think many of us. All of us that want a great relationship, that want affection, that want to get rid of that cold feeling of emptiness and loneliness. Yet we're unlucky and we come across all the wrong people with either bad/hurtfull relationships, rejection or complete avoidance. The right person is out there, but not everyone has the patience and/or the emotional strength to wait for it.
To the OP, Im sorry, but "having the right package" means nothing. There is no "right package" first of all, each person has their own "favourites". Love doesnt see money or job or anything, love sees the person no matter how good or broken it is. Yes, they say most women prefer confident and emotionaly secure men etc, but that means nothing, a person will love you no matter how you are, a person will love you with your flaws too.
My advice is dont give up but dont try too hard. Sometimes if we try too hard we fail to see where we go wrong or we miss chances.\
then again, i suck at life so i could be totally wrong