AnonymousMe
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It’s just something that I wondered yesterday. I consider myself Heteroflexible (which is like being 90% straight and 10% gay) and I’ve never had a girlfriend/boyfriend, so I consider them both special, but looking at the big picture, which one is more unique?
Gay ones are strange, because they’re simple and difficult at the same time. You are dating someone of your own gender after all, so you know what to expect in terms of personality and physicality. However, getting into one is no easy task, it’s like finding a needle in a haystack or winning the lottery; being in one is like winning in a game of luck.
Straight ones are, overall, more complex, because you’re dating the opposite gender, so it can be difficult to read between the lines of what your partner wants. However, the experiences can be very rewarding, each one experiences things that only the opposite sex can offer. The thing is, straight relationships are WAY more common, to the point where it is debatable as to if they should consider themselves fortunate of being in one in the first place.
This is just what I think, each one has their pros and cons, so I don’t think any one is above the other, unless if they’re under more exceptional circumstances (polyamory, for instance), but I just want to see what you all think? Is one more special than the other or am I just full of honeysuckle for thinking about this?
Gay ones are strange, because they’re simple and difficult at the same time. You are dating someone of your own gender after all, so you know what to expect in terms of personality and physicality. However, getting into one is no easy task, it’s like finding a needle in a haystack or winning the lottery; being in one is like winning in a game of luck.
Straight ones are, overall, more complex, because you’re dating the opposite gender, so it can be difficult to read between the lines of what your partner wants. However, the experiences can be very rewarding, each one experiences things that only the opposite sex can offer. The thing is, straight relationships are WAY more common, to the point where it is debatable as to if they should consider themselves fortunate of being in one in the first place.
This is just what I think, each one has their pros and cons, so I don’t think any one is above the other, unless if they’re under more exceptional circumstances (polyamory, for instance), but I just want to see what you all think? Is one more special than the other or am I just full of honeysuckle for thinking about this?