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SophiaGrace
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I've been on this site for over a year and I keep hearing/seeing the same-old confusing tirade/lament from guys on here.
"women only like bad boys"
"women only like guys that treat them like honeysuckle"
"if i treated a woman like honeysuckle she'd stay but if i treated her nicely she'd leave"
(this one i actually heard from my brother during Thanksgiving o_o)
" Good guys alway come last."
And I am just....so confused here.
Why oh why oh why is this a recurring theme? If a guy ever treated me like honeysuckle i'd put him in his place immediately and kick his butt out on the sidewalk. Nothing makes me angrier than a guy who wont respect me. Literally, nothing. :l
Ok, I get it...some men who say this are bitter/hurt from what happened to them in previous relationships and what HASNT materialized in their lives. These guys obviously need to learn to forgive and heal themselves inside and then eventually move forward. I wish them the best of luck in this. They deserve happiness instead of pain from their past.
On another note, I, as a woman, could turn around and say this...
"men only like sluts"
"men only like women who show their boobs"
"men just want to have sex"
"men only see women as objects for their own ends rather than real people"
But I dont say that. I dont say that because I can think of a few wonderful men in my life (family members, friends, a past-boyfriend or two).
And I dont dare to put all men in that category. I know good men are out there and I find them when I least expect to. They're good people and they usually end up being my friend whether we go out or not.
I guess in the end, the creation of this thread will not matter. People will make generalizations either way about the opposite sex.
Guess I just wanted to put a few thoughts out there.
"women only like bad boys"
"women only like guys that treat them like honeysuckle"
"if i treated a woman like honeysuckle she'd stay but if i treated her nicely she'd leave"
(this one i actually heard from my brother during Thanksgiving o_o)
" Good guys alway come last."
And I am just....so confused here.
Why oh why oh why is this a recurring theme? If a guy ever treated me like honeysuckle i'd put him in his place immediately and kick his butt out on the sidewalk. Nothing makes me angrier than a guy who wont respect me. Literally, nothing. :l
Ok, I get it...some men who say this are bitter/hurt from what happened to them in previous relationships and what HASNT materialized in their lives. These guys obviously need to learn to forgive and heal themselves inside and then eventually move forward. I wish them the best of luck in this. They deserve happiness instead of pain from their past.
On another note, I, as a woman, could turn around and say this...
"men only like sluts"
"men only like women who show their boobs"
"men just want to have sex"
"men only see women as objects for their own ends rather than real people"
But I dont say that. I dont say that because I can think of a few wonderful men in my life (family members, friends, a past-boyfriend or two).
And I dont dare to put all men in that category. I know good men are out there and I find them when I least expect to. They're good people and they usually end up being my friend whether we go out or not.
I guess in the end, the creation of this thread will not matter. People will make generalizations either way about the opposite sex.
Guess I just wanted to put a few thoughts out there.