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So I live in a college town and am in college myself. Today my neighbors, who are two girls, had a U-Haul parked in front of their house. Obviously they were moving out so I went over to offer assistance. I told them to let me know if they need any help with some of the heavier furniture. They said thanks but they had some guys coming over to help. I felt like a ******...they could have just said ok we will let you know if we need you. They treated me like i asked them on a date but they already had a boyfriend... It was really quite rude. Anyway, as I said bye and began to walk back to my house, one of the girls said "sorry".......
First of all, I just went over to ask if they needed any help. I wasn't trying to make a move. They were moving so it would have been a very inopportune time anyway. Secondly, why would they tell me "sorry" like i was missing out on the chance to physically strain myself for free.
Later I saw two guys standing on the porch having beers while the girls loaded a large dresser by themselves.
Also yesterday, the girl sitting next to me taking a final left her purse in class. I finished half a minute later and grabbed the purse and went to go catch her. She had realized she had forgotten it and as I was walking out of the class, she was coming back to get it. I said here is your purse. She quickly grabbed it from me and asked if I took anything or looked through it. I just rolled my eyes and walked away.
Both were demoralizing experience and makes me not really want to offer help in the future. I tend to get this kind of reaction even when I hold doors open for girls as well. For some reason, it seems my help is never appreciated. I don't try to come off as a creep, but maybe I just have that creep factor. I have come to the conclusion that girls only accept chivalrous acts from tall dark handsome men. That isn't me.
First of all, I just went over to ask if they needed any help. I wasn't trying to make a move. They were moving so it would have been a very inopportune time anyway. Secondly, why would they tell me "sorry" like i was missing out on the chance to physically strain myself for free.
Later I saw two guys standing on the porch having beers while the girls loaded a large dresser by themselves.
Also yesterday, the girl sitting next to me taking a final left her purse in class. I finished half a minute later and grabbed the purse and went to go catch her. She had realized she had forgotten it and as I was walking out of the class, she was coming back to get it. I said here is your purse. She quickly grabbed it from me and asked if I took anything or looked through it. I just rolled my eyes and walked away.
Both were demoralizing experience and makes me not really want to offer help in the future. I tend to get this kind of reaction even when I hold doors open for girls as well. For some reason, it seems my help is never appreciated. I don't try to come off as a creep, but maybe I just have that creep factor. I have come to the conclusion that girls only accept chivalrous acts from tall dark handsome men. That isn't me.