Would you pay for company and sex?

[The-One]

I'll be interested to see the result, the option of paying to experience for a short while what most people have normally must have all crossed our minds at some time or other.

Personally I have before, though I always feel a bit weird emotionally after (no STD jokes please).

I paid an escort for a night while on holiday when i was 18 to get rid of my virginity and more recently, I was on holiday again and paid another escort for a night and a day whre we went out to see the city together and it was more GF like. Also paid another escort in the UK for some kinky sex games as well before though that was for a much shorter time as it's more expensive in the UK.

Obviously I have no personal objections to anyone else doing the same thing.

What are your experiences and thoughts on the matter?

EDIT: I have voted for "Have, not sure". Reason being that I have now tried nearly everything I would have wanted to do with a girl if it wasn't paid for, I just wanted to see what it was all like, and now I have.

 

[Jesse]

Never have, never will.

 

[Lebowski]

you have a good ammount of money dont you. i wouldn't but eventually the pressure is going to get so big.

 

[Punisher]

oooh, there's another thread like this one, and i've said what i have to say about it on that one, so...

BTW what Jesse said FTW!

 

[Nyktimos]

I voted Never have, not sure. A while ago, perhaps even a few months ago, it would have been Never have, never will. But since my principles have ruined my life, if I ever get out of my current situation I think anything goes.

 

[Divinitywolf]

Never have Never will

 

[MiKeY]

I couldn't do it... I think it'd be an emotional mess afterwards... not to mention worries of STD's and the like. I would hope I'd be special to whoever I was with in that capacity, and if I was job #578 to a whore, there'd be no chance of me being anything more than a wod of cash on a desperate night. No, I never have, and I never will. I think I'm worth more than that... I'd rather go without the nookie than to be just another name on a list. Besides... wouldn't it be really awkward looking into her/his eyes during the act, seeing no interest whatsoever? I couldn't handle it. I need an emotional connection. That's just me personally. Not judging the decisions of others.

 

[tal]

Never have, never will. I want any experiences I have to be genuine. When there's money involved, it's not going to be genuine.

 

[Lebowski]

Never have, never will. I want any experiences I have to be genuine. When there's money involved, it's not going to be genuine.

prostitutes are meant for people that have had sex. they dont desire it as much so it doesnt mean as much to them. you and i are both desperate to an extent but still could never imagine ourselves in the prostitute situation.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

My new purpose in life is to be a multy billionair.
This way I can afford 20 high dallor call girls every night.

It won't be out of desperation...It'll be out of spite and the principle of it all.

Well..when U live with someone for over decade and she tells U that
she loves almost everyday...You belive it. You think it's real and meaningful.
Then you get up oneday and she just say she dosn't love you anymore
without giving reasons and not even saying anything to you about it.
Somewhere alone the line it smashed whateve the fresia Love means.
A whore is cheaper and less taxing...finacially, mentally and emotionally.
At least I'm not going to get lied to. Truth...I can handle truth.

Errr...sure, I just need another angel or a specail woman to come make everything all right again.
As much as I want to beliving in love again...I don't think I'll ever be the same.
The perfect, perfect woman that can really truley love me or understand me...dosn't exist.
It would take an act of god...but ya see, I prayed to god for years and years for sometype of intervention and help.
I don't think god is listening to me or give a fresia oneway or the other. It's all a cluster fresia anywho.
Beside, I get bored easily

 

[PoWer2tHePeOpLE]

The perfect, perfect woman that can really truley love me or understand me...dosn't exist.

I never really thought she existed to begin with, i just wanted someone that wasnt a psychopath that stole my money, lied to me, cheated on me and beat me up.

.. then i found out some women have more specific criteria for a partner than just those characteristics..

some of them want a guy with ambition, direction, motivation, a GOOD job, goals in life, someone to build a future with..???

CRAZY! GREEDY!

whats wrong with a go-nowhere-slob?

honestly, all these expectations!!!

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Hookers just takes the money your willing to give them.

Lovers steal Ur soul, after she steals ur money, cheat, lied, slash ur tires, N wreck ur car. ( I didn't expect that)
Then have the audacity to claim it's Karma...

Karman and her hooker friends can correct all the karma.

 

[Sonic_95]

Never have and never will. I'm just not that kind of person. Like others have stated, I want it to be meaningful and not just some one night stand.

 

[ensom]

Never have. I'd like to say never will, but I just don't know. At this point I'm certain that if it came down to it and I was in a position to actually hire someone, I wouldn't be able to go through with it. I would just feel too ashamed and that would follow me for the rest of my life.

 

[SophiaGrace]

well I'd PAY for companionship (in the form of a Psychologist) lol. A hooker, no, because uhm...I'm a girl? and also because I have no idea where to FIND hookers...and...erm.....there are no such things as guy hookers. lol. Wait, guys dont need to be hookers, they give you sex for free .

Oh, look how I have rambled. LOL.

Truth: I wouldnt want cheap sex. It'd tear me apart emotionally.

 

[loketron]

no hookers, ever

 

[EveWasFramed]

lmao, actually, Sophia, there ARE male escorts and such.

I've never paid for any form of companionship - I've never had to, so I'm lucky I suppose.
Would I? I have no idea, but I tend to do whatever strikes my fancy, as long as I'm not hurting myself or anyone else.
As for the ones providing the services, well, I don't look down my nose at anyone who chooses that field - it's their life and they live it how they choose. Hell, now a days, people sell just about anything, including their souls! I guess selling your company isn't so bad compared to that. lol

EDIT: I also think that some people's views change, about things in general, the older they get.

 

[Spare]

Never have, never will.

 

[samba101]

Well I'd never pay for a male escort just not my thing and there are websites available if you do want to hook up with someone for the night with no money involved.

I used to work as a receptionist for an escort agency, all walks of life hire escorts many of the guys were looking for girlfriends. I have nothing against guys hiring escorts I have 2 male friends who have and not once did I think any different of them. Each to their own.

 

[Brian]

I guess I'm the one in the category that would, lol.

I've considered it at any rate. Some nights I just think it'd be nice to have someone to have dinner with. Maybe that and anything that happened after would help me get over some of my uncomfortable awkwardness.

I don't know. I know after I got my first lapdance, I wasn't quite as afraid of women as I was before. There's something about a naked one being right in your lap that sort of removes some of the mystique, lol.