Would you pay for company and sex?

[Lebowski]

lol, sorry to ask this but how do you get someone to come to dinner with you? i didnt know that was possible. cant imagine what that conversation would be like

 

[Naval_Fluff]

Never, because if you pay for it it's not the real thing. Anyone will be your friend for money, a true friend will be with you when you're broke. And sex, def not. I don't think I could have sex with a woman I didn't love. I know, you're probably thinking "If he had a naked chick in front of him he would do her no questions asked." But truly, I wouldn't I just would not be able to go through something that intimate with someone I don't even know.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

lol, sorry to ask this but how do you get someone to come to dinner with you? i didnt know that was possible. cant imagine what that conversation would be like

Not only is asking your shrink out to dinner is a conflict of interest,
your HMO won't allow it.

A conversation with a hooker is peaceful. Hookers have
manners and don't talk with thier mouth full.

A conversation with a babe you have the hots for islike you being the fucken shrink. You have to listen
to her talking about Billy Joe Dell Hoe breaking her heart and stealing her virginity.

Oh..asking her out to dinner.
You just say....

Hello, are you bussy tonight ?
No..you're not avaliable. U have an engagment already.
Okay...
Oh..maybe we can do lunch and each other on Tuseday ??
Cool...you're free on tuseday for me and lunch.
What...I have to call in sick on tuseday too ?
Really...you would do that for me ?
That's so kind of you. You such a nice girl.
What ???
Oh okay....I'm posting a reminder note on my frigg....
"get carrots and cucumber by Tuseday.."
Yes..yes..I won't forget...carrots and cucumbers.
Btw..what kind of lunch are you going to make with carrots and cucumbers ?
Oh...you'll show me on tuseday...
Cool...
Tuseday it is....

 

[The-One]

you have a good ammount of money dont you. i wouldn't but eventually the pressure is going to get so big.

not really, it was over several years and only where the exchange rate is favourable when converted from sterling and everything there is cheaper. can't afford or justify it in the uk. if i had enough money to do what I did abroad then I would think i'd at least be a bit more happier and confident.

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so far i see the vast majority of answers are "never have, never will" hmm...

 

[Brian]

Hookers have
manners and don't eat with thier mouth full.

wat

 

[Phyxi]

I vote.... never have, never will

 

[PoWer2tHePeOpLE]

i went to a couple of strip shows when i was younger and it was the lamest, saddest, most pathetic scenario i have ever seen. the guys were disgusting pigs with no manners, greasy, slimy and disrespectful. i have never felt closer to being a low-life, shameful and amoral animal when i actually thought about what was going on. not just that but i couldnt get the thought of what these women were thinking and feeling out of my head. if i imagined myself in their position i couldnt imagine that i wouldnt feel like utter honeysuckle having to parade myself in front of these cocks on legs for money... let alone selling my body for some stranger to put their hands (and everything else) on me... ******* BLAH. i dont believe that being a stripper or a prostitute can have NO effect on a person emotionally and psychologically even if it may SEEM that the woman is 'handling' it seemingly okay. i wonder how a woman got to the position where this is how she has decided to make money. what went wrong?

i am not a father, but i imagine these women being my daughter, my sister, my friend.. i would do everything i could to get them out of this kind of work.

i have known 2 strippers and 1 hooker. and they all had some sort of emotional turmoil that was quite evident if you made the effort to get to know them and look a little deeper.

i dont judge peoples choices if i can help it, but i am human and i frankly i do judge.. it just happens. i think men a pathetic for not being able to keep it zipped up. no one has died from not having sex or seeing a naked woman.

if you want to pay for conversation, sure, enjoy.. but how could you EVER get it out of your head that this person youre talking to is 'on the clock' ? i couldnt.

if you need to 'get your urges satisfied'. have a wank.

 

[samba101]

lol, sorry to ask this but how do you get someone to come to dinner with you? i didnt know that was possible. cant imagine what that conversation would be like

You hire the escort for the hour or hours and you can do whatever you chose to do with that time, though it's costly. A driver will drive the girl to your address and wait until she's ready to leave. This is called a Girlfriend Experience.

 

[Jesse]

I was talking to my dad about how I can't find a girlfriend, a date, or a woman even remotely interested in me at all. He told me to go to Vegas. I asked him why vegas? He said because they have women there *big smile on his face*

I said yeah, but I don't want the kind of woman I have to pay for.

He said, well you've gotta pay for it eventually.

 

[cheaptrickfan]

I have never resorted to paying for it and never would. If I really want a sexual encounter devoid of emotion, I have a few male friends who've said that they'd be my FBs any time. I still doubt that I could go there. It rubs me the wrong way (pun not intended there).

However, some people consider marriage as a form of sanctioned prostitution, but in my case, we both paid for that endeavor.

And how.

 

[Divinitywolf]

I don't trust easily so theres no way in hell I'd have fun with a stranger unless I was hammered beyond comprehension.

Not paying for it. I will get it my way.

 

[Naval_Fluff]

if you need to 'get your urges satisfied'. have a wank.

Lol the ultimate stress revliever

 

[h i]

have not, would.

if i had a billion dollars, id have a thousand babies, and give a million to each mother and child. how epic would that be to have a thousand children. your name and life would be legend. your children could make a town of their own. the possibilities...


more seriously though. marriage costs money... so yeah.

 

[Luna]

Uhh...for the sex, no.

Uhh...for the company, the thought has crossed my mind a few times.

I doubt I could bring myself to ever do it at this point in my life...but perhaps my loneliness will drive me crazy (or crazier than it already has lol) in a few years time and I would pay for someone to come to the movies with me.

If that doesn't work out, I think I'll just buy a cat.

 

[Haven]

Not my style.

 

[Hereon]

Never have, never will.

The fact that my face is ugly and that im probably going to die before i meet anyone means an entire life of being alone and single.

I believe sex should only be done with the one you love... thats my opinion anyways, and i would never have sex with somebody i barely knew.

 

[UKchappie]

Theres a middle ground here which hasnt really been mentioned.

Would i pay for sex? No.
Company. Probably not, but there is a depends there.

Right now i could easily just wish for, and pay for if needed, someone to hold me and hug me for the night. Sex isnt important, but i'd give me right arm for a real caring loving hug from someone. Id pay for that tomorrow.

Is that company im paying for? Dont know dont care.

I just want to be held and comforted, so ye, i'll pay.

 

[oarivan]

Well I lost it to a prostitute so I guess yea, I would pay for company and sex, but mostly when drunk. It's just desperation. I don't really want to but..meh

 

[Coverage]

Never have and never will.

Just not the type of thing I'm interested in.

 

[NobodySpecial]

I have honestly wondered if it was possible to pay someone to just hug me. I don't imagine my mate would like it, but i crave that, someone to just hold me.

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Theres a middle ground here which hasnt really been mentioned.

Would i pay for sex? No.
Company. Probably not, but there is a depends there.

Right now i could easily just wish for, and pay for if needed, someone to hold me and hug me for the night. Sex isnt important, but i'd give me right arm for a real caring loving hug from someone. Id pay for that tomorrow.

Is that company im paying for? Dont know dont care.

I just want to be held and comforted, so ye, i'll pay.

yeah.. like that. i do like sex.. but just to be held would be heaven.