You know your lonely when

[Dr Q]

When u want to go see a movie and have no one to watch it with

But you still end up going anyways, even though you know it's not supposed to be a very good movie.
And then while leaving you wipe out and get launched off of your bike in the parking lot, right in front of the twenty or so other people who also just left the theater.

 

[Peaches]

you don't talk to anyone for days at the time

 

[trueth]

When your having a honeysuckle day / week and there is no one at all to talk to about it.

^^^^

 

[lonelyfairy]

When you're sleeping in your bed so alone middle of the night and wishing you would have someone special kissing, hugging and holding you tight.

 

[dn560]

You know your lonely when:

People don't care to call or message you to check if youre even alive

When you pretend to be kind just so someone would like you back

You sit at a seat in a crowded cafeteria and people rather stand than sit in the empty spaces next to you

People laugh at you for being different even tho one cannot change their appearance due to lifelong sickness

Sit at home in an empty house crying because no matter how hard you try things go from bad to worse.

When you have to be escorted by your disrespectful family and be their slave cuz that's the only way you get out of the house.

When the crowd of people say youre a weirdo don't talk to that guy....

 

[Bob Lee]

You know your lonely when.....

1.) Music seems to be the only thing that gets you and never hates or leaves you.
2.) You are only remembered when its to someone you knows direct benefit.
3.) You actually do have a conversation, you end up repeating yourself because they are not really listening anyway.
4.) You see the world for what it really is and as a result your are secluded from its illusions.
5.) Your wisdom will never allow you to lower yourself to the level of incompetence in the pursuit of acceptance.
6.) You see the world without time, and are thus outside of it superficiality entirely.
7.) Its painful to know the truth of people's cruelty to one another, as a result it will never be easy to make a real friend.
8.) Your honesty and integrity are the principal reasons that other people will never consider you a real friend.
9.) Television and Online Gaming makes for excellent company.
10.) You care more for mankind than mankind cares for itself.

In conclusion you will never escape loneliness as long as you stay true to yourself.
Our only hope is to be accepted for who we are without the need for any change.

Absent that, in the alternative you can change your ways become a "Fake" person,
willing to drop everything dear to you in the name of a social order that truly cares not for you.
Now you will have all kinds of fake friends.

Loneliness is a serious and unfortunate situation to be in,
however it doesn't mean happiness can't be found just staying true to who you really are!

 

[Xpendable]

You know you're lonely when.....

1.) Music seems to be the only thing that gets you and never hates or leaves you.
2.) You are only remembered when its to someone you knows direct benefit.
3.) You actually do have a conversation, you end up repeating yourself because they are not really listening anyway.
4.) You see the world for what it really is and as a result your are secluded from its illusions.
5.) Your wisdom will never allow you to lower yourself to the level of incompetence in the pursuit of acceptance.
6.) You see the world without time, and are thus outside of it superficiality entirely.
7.) Its painful to know the truth of people's cruelty to one another, as a result it will never be easy to make a real friend.
8.) Your honesty and integrity are the principal reasons that other people will never consider you a real friend.
9.) Television and Online Gaming makes for excellent company.
10.) You care more for mankind than mankind cares for itself.

In conclusion you will never escape loneliness as long as you stay true to yourself.
Our only hope is to be accepted for who we are without the need for any change.

Absent that, in the alternative you can change your ways become a "Fake" person,
willing to drop everything dear to you in the name of a social order that truly cares not for you.
Now you will have all kinds of fake friends.

Loneliness is a serious and unfortunate situation to be in,
however it doesn't mean happiness can't be found just staying true to who you really are!

You know you're lonely when the people that think similar to you live thousands of miles away.

 

[constant stranger]

When you've actually forgotten what it felt like to be envious when you see groups of happy friends or affectionate couples out in public.

I used to envy them but I've been alone for so long it's become normal to be the solitary figure in the public places.

 

[dn560]

you know youre lonely when people dont reply to your posts on forums

 

[PenDragon]

^ Uhm... I can relate that too in few ways. But yes, It doesn't make me feel lonely too but only sometimes not all the time.

 

[Arachne]

When someone does not contact you or even know of your existence.

 

[Shadow Of Nothing]

You know you're lonely when you take roleplaying very seriously and personally because the relationships your character has built are the most intimate relationships in your life.

 

[Alana]

*hugs everyone in this thread*

..sorry I invaded your personal space if you're sensitive to that but my thoughts are with you too.

 

[LolaEliot]

Just remind me of a song of Keane
"I wake up
It's a bad dream
No one on my side
I was fighting
But I just feel too tired
To be fighting
Guess I'm not the fighting kind"
I cry everytime when I heard that part of lyrics.

 

[LonesomeDay]

You know you're lonely when you've maxed out on your capacity for solitude.

 

[Veruca]

You know you're lonely when you're the third wheel everytime you socialize with friends or family.

 

[Niantiel]

when life has lost it's point, or purpose. When you have no agenda and are only floating from one day unto the next in a scheduled routine of events and all of the people that you used to talk to are gone now.

 

[BeyondShy]

*hugs everyone in this thread*

..sorry I invaded your personal space if you're sensitive to that but my thoughts are with you too.

You're just being nice. There's no way anyone can find fault in that.

 

[Nuke1967]

When you start to talk to inanimate objects or yourself.

A couple I read on here about wondering if you died at home how long it would take to find the body, and wonder why you own a cell phone when nobody ever calls.

When you get jealous of people that have a close family and friends.


Everyone you know has someone and you do not.

 

[5pt7art]

when you drink everyday so you can drift away and forget about being alone

when you upgraded phones and then realize when you get home whats the point if no one calls or messages you

when you really want to go out to a nice restaurant for a nice meal.....but you dont because you have no one to go with

when you wish you could meet certain people again for the first time..and this time around have the guts to make a better impression

when you want to just scream outloud

when you want to delete your facebook profile...or post your problems but figure no on would care anyways

when all you have is aquaintences

when youre 27 yrs old and have never been in a relationship