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I'm sorry you're feeling so bad... I definitely have felt a lot of those things myself. (All of them, actually!) I too feel that life is a test, to see how much pain I can take without breaking. That's the only way my life makes any sense at all. But I embrace the challenge, and have resolved to...

Well I am no genius at relationships, but my feeling is that if you have something you feel you need to get off your chest, you should say it. Each of us is responsible for our own happiness, and how your ex chooses to respond will be up to her. If you have regrets over things left unsaid, then...

I'm 40... Looking forward to being 41. Turning 40 felt like a shocking transition (and it didn't help that my life completely fell apart this past year) - but hopefully 41 will feel like I'm a well-adjusted middle-aged person :)

You make it sound so fun! I used to have a complete phobia about grocery shopping, but since I've been single it's been a lot better. I was surprised to find out that the health food store across the street from me is actually cheaper than the regular grocery store, so I've enjoyed shopping there!

It's hard being misunderstood. Though oddly enough, I find myself on the other side of that equation, with my own divorce. I don't understand my ex's reasons for abandoning his wedding vows, and can only conclude that he's an ass. But from his point of view, he probably doesn't think he's an...

I'm sorry you're leaving! I've left online communities in the past too, because I've gotten hurt by people who I thought were my friends. It's hard when it's a forum you've really enjoyed. I hope you change your mind and decide to stay, but I definitely understand the feeling of just wanting to...

I don't like when people hurt my feelings and then tell me I'm being hypersensitive for getting upset over it. (Happens a lot; I know I'm the common denominator in this situation, but still, I don't like it!) I don't like when people promise to love me forever, through good times and bad, and...

That's an interesting question, and it's actually one of the reasons I haven't been posting lately: I don't think I'm actually lonely, or that I even understand what that means, or how other people feel when they say they're 'lonely'. I'm an introvert. I like being alone. I don't have friends...

Ahhh! I don't want to know... 0.0

How fun! I've written mostly Star Wars and Lord of the Rings. I love anything to do with King Arthur, but haven't seen the latest Merlin series... I need to look into that! :)

I love writing too, though I'm not very good at it (I've written a few fanfics, but nothing original!) It's a fun creative outlet... I love sci-fi and fantasy too :)

Welcome! I hear you - I prefer internet socializing over real life as well, and have found this forum to be a really nice place! What are your hobbies & interests? :)

I never developed self-esteem as a kid, so I had to learn it from a book later in life. What resonated with me was the concept that your OWN opinion of yourself is what matters - not other people's opinion of you. These days I think I have fairly decent self-esteem, because I know I've tried my...

Hey I'm sorry you're feeling bad about this stuff. I hate holidays too - or at least, I've hated them most of my adult life. (Loved them as a kid though!) For me, I think my depression overwhelmed me to the point where nothing was fun, so holidays were just about going through the motions, and...

I found this other site that explains it... I think I'm INFJ: http://www.mypersonality.info/personality-types/infj/ Sometimes the test questions trick me because I'm an extreme "Feeler" but I've learned to make decisions as a "Thinker" because my feelings get me in trouble... But "Feeler" is...

I get called "KK" and "Bunny Rabbit"... Oh dear :P

Thanks Lost Soul! I've been feeling really down and unloved today, I needed this! :)

ISTJ - "Trustee". Decisiveness in practical affairs. Guardian of time- honored institutions. Dependable. 11.6% of total population. Haha, I'm about the least 'dependable' person I know... This doesn't really seem to describe me actually. I'm definitely introverted, but I don't really...

Thanks Bones! Yeah this past year has been awful, but I'm hoping better times are ahead! =)

Short term: - move out of my apartment this month - move in with my parents next month - get used to life with my family Long term: - uhh... - ??? - seriously, I got nothing :/