It's been over two years since I had last made contact with the boy who haunts my dreams. I don't know why I am still hung up on such an old relationship.
I met this boy while he was going out with a friend of mine a little over four years ago. I took one look at him and that was it. I told myself it was wrong, but I was going to have him one day. About a month later he and I had been talking a lot and he had confided in me about his relationship issues. No, I did not take the cruel approach, I told him to talk to my friend (who he was dating) about the issues because perhaps they could work things out. I gave him some serious advise. He took it and they fixed things for about another two months and then she ended things with him.
Soon after that he ended up asking me out and that began our two and a half year relationship. We were inseparable. I basically lived with him the last year and a half. We talked like any young couple would about their future, marriage, children, colleges, ect. We were the it couple. The couple everyone envied.
I began to feel fear. I was wondering if I was ready to settle down so soon, if he was the one for me. I let that fear ruin everything. I told him I wanted to take a break. He didn't want to agree, but he cared about me so we did. Everyday we'd still see one another and he'd still hold me like he would when we were officially together. He'd tell me he'd wait for me.
After two weeks of his promises I realized he is the one for me. I still remember the last day we saw one another before I called him.
"Tessa, I love you. I'm going to wait for you. You are the girl I see by my side for the rest of my life."
The next day I called him. Confident. Ready. I wasn't expecting our phone conversation to go so wrong.
He told me he had a change of heart. I was desperate for an answer, so I blurted, "Who's the new girl?" Not expecting a name, he gave me one. I asked him how he could do that to me and he told me he had gotten tired of waiting on me. Angry, I told him to never talk to me again.
He hasn't. I made many attempts of messages and phone calls for about a month, telling him that I didn't mean what I had said and I wanted him in my life as a friend if I couldn't have him as my lover. He never replied, never picked up, but about a year ago- he was walking back and forth in front of my house. I was so shocked. I couldn't say anything. I didn't want him to know I still loved him (he was engaged to be married to the same woman he had mentioned in the last phone call we had and she was pregnant with their son). He didn't just do it once, he did it twice. Both times he starred right at me. He smiled. That boggled my mind. I had no idea why he would do that. To be cruel and give me hope that he still cared?
Can anyone answer those questions? Why is still on my mind? Why would he walk back and forth in front of my house on two different occasions? HOW DO I GET OVER HIM FOR GOOD?
I've moved two states away recently. For many reasons, but I felt as if it could help as well. It hasn't.
I met this boy while he was going out with a friend of mine a little over four years ago. I took one look at him and that was it. I told myself it was wrong, but I was going to have him one day. About a month later he and I had been talking a lot and he had confided in me about his relationship issues. No, I did not take the cruel approach, I told him to talk to my friend (who he was dating) about the issues because perhaps they could work things out. I gave him some serious advise. He took it and they fixed things for about another two months and then she ended things with him.
Soon after that he ended up asking me out and that began our two and a half year relationship. We were inseparable. I basically lived with him the last year and a half. We talked like any young couple would about their future, marriage, children, colleges, ect. We were the it couple. The couple everyone envied.
I began to feel fear. I was wondering if I was ready to settle down so soon, if he was the one for me. I let that fear ruin everything. I told him I wanted to take a break. He didn't want to agree, but he cared about me so we did. Everyday we'd still see one another and he'd still hold me like he would when we were officially together. He'd tell me he'd wait for me.
After two weeks of his promises I realized he is the one for me. I still remember the last day we saw one another before I called him.
"Tessa, I love you. I'm going to wait for you. You are the girl I see by my side for the rest of my life."
The next day I called him. Confident. Ready. I wasn't expecting our phone conversation to go so wrong.
He told me he had a change of heart. I was desperate for an answer, so I blurted, "Who's the new girl?" Not expecting a name, he gave me one. I asked him how he could do that to me and he told me he had gotten tired of waiting on me. Angry, I told him to never talk to me again.
He hasn't. I made many attempts of messages and phone calls for about a month, telling him that I didn't mean what I had said and I wanted him in my life as a friend if I couldn't have him as my lover. He never replied, never picked up, but about a year ago- he was walking back and forth in front of my house. I was so shocked. I couldn't say anything. I didn't want him to know I still loved him (he was engaged to be married to the same woman he had mentioned in the last phone call we had and she was pregnant with their son). He didn't just do it once, he did it twice. Both times he starred right at me. He smiled. That boggled my mind. I had no idea why he would do that. To be cruel and give me hope that he still cared?
Can anyone answer those questions? Why is still on my mind? Why would he walk back and forth in front of my house on two different occasions? HOW DO I GET OVER HIM FOR GOOD?
I've moved two states away recently. For many reasons, but I felt as if it could help as well. It hasn't.