PenDragon said:
Rodent said:
Then don't say that everyone needs love or company just because you accepted this as a grand truth for yourself.
Human nature, proven many times not once, Human is social animal that's what I have known If you're gonna prove some other thing then please sure do that. Tell me, do you not have company? Not even for a second? Do you not talk with anyone? I can understand you're not "craving" for love thing but don't you seek company? Don't you want someone who can listen you when you talk? Don't you need that?
PD, I think you and I have had this sort of similar conversation before. While maybe you are asking these questions in these ways here, they ring the same bells to what you asked me before about my stance in this similar matter.
Human nature, social animals, whatever we are. It doesn't matter. Cos we as humans can make choices and decide how we want to live our lives. It all depends on how strongly we feel about something and in this case, as I did tell you before, I do not want any close contact with anyone anymore and I'm perfectly fine with that. I even mentioned in my previous diary post I don't yearn for it and it doesn't bother me if this is how it'll be for the rest of my life.
I also told you how I could keep going in this way without feeling the need to "bond" as you might recall. It's all about your views on this, and how strongly you feel about it based on your experiences, self-control and self-discipline, maturity and pure clarity.
It's not a bad thing to "resign". Perhaps the word "resignation" has a negative connotation to it. But for some of us, it's a choice we make and we are perfectly fine living that way. Not depressed, not sad, not disturbed. Just a choice we make.
So forgive me if I'm butting in here, but I just thought of reinforcing what I already said before, it
IS possible for a human being not to crave for another person for anything at all. In my case though, since I already have some few close friends, I still talk to them yes. But will I get depressed if I don't? No, I won't. Do I
need interaction with them? No. I don't.