Anything specific that turns you on or off in a potential partner?

[user 135067]

I suppose there are things a partner might do that attracts me. Being forward comes to mind... basically giving me permission to be naughty. But it depends on the person, too. Not all partners can entice me that way. Some, their character is more to the innocence and they would need to be timid but permissive. So, for character... it depends.

As for other things, I hate tattoos. Not that I'd hate a petite and delicate tattoo. They can strike me as flirty, but covering yourself with them, well, you will never be naked again. While that might be the point, it goes against my natural inclination to have sex while naked. Still, no tattoo is better. it's the same with makeup. A little is okay.

I can be enticed by wardrobe. But that just gets the ball rolling. Eventually they come off.

When it comes down to it I want natural and honesty. I'll add that I am quite easy. So it is likely anything will be overlooked for a good time.

Wow, I'm such a man slut.

 

[user 135067]

Im a sucker for a man on a motorcycle.

I used to have one... well, I had few but I feel a motorcycle is yours only when you put your personality into it. Anyone can buy a bike and ride it. Even the bolt on custom isn't going to make the bike "yours". Someone else designed it. In that I've had two stock and one custom.

To truly own a motorcycle you have to cut it up and weld it back the way you want it. I like a chopper, but I prefer a bobber. This was mine, lovingly built and painted by yours truly.

As for partners... it was a chick magnet.

 

[Claudia1794]

I used to have one... well, I had few but I feel a motorcycle is yours only when you put your personality into it. Anyone can buy a bike and ride it. Even the bolt on custom isn't going to make the bike "yours". Someone else designed it. In that I've had two stock and one custom.

To truly own a motorcycle you have to cut it up and weld it back the way you want it. I like a chopper, but I prefer a bobber. This was mine, lovingly built and painted by yours truly.

As for partners... it was a chick magnet.

Well I'm just gonna be honest, I don't know anything other than how to ride one. Mine goes to the dealership for service. When he found out I rode he was thinking he could say all this stuff and I would just automatically understand, I dont. Ive been riding motorcycles since the I was 13 and a boy told me I couldnt handle his dirtbike. Yes, they are chick magnets but they are also dick magnets.

 

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I used to have one... well, I had few but I feel a motorcycle is yours only when you put your personality into it. Anyone can buy a bike and ride it. Even the bolt on custom isn't going to make the bike "yours". Someone else designed it. In that I've had two stock and one custom.

To truly own a motorcycle you have to cut it up and weld it back the way you want it. I like a chopper, but I prefer a bobber. This was mine, lovingly built and painted by yours truly.

As for partners... it was a chick magnet.

I completely rebuilt this one totally in my kitchen. Ha! ha! An advantage to being single. I made my own gas tanks too. The two sides combined held about 9 gallons of gas. I liked riding not constantly pulling over for fuel. Ha! ha!

 

[insecure]

another pet peeve/turn off:
whenever anyone starts the conversation with: "So, what's your story?"
Something about that phrase.. Just comes off more rude and obnoxious sounding rather than inquisitive.

Maybe because it sounds like "I've heard like a hundred different stories already, whatever you say, there will be nothing new about it."
Makes them sound like they are a know it all.

 

[charlotte craig]

If you meet someone, is there anything in particular that attracts you in this person, or on the other hand turns you off?

I work hard, put a lot of effort into it, go without a lot of things like spare time and time to relax to do it very well. The last thing I would want in a partner is a person who is lazy, only working now and then or part time, not really interested in work or being ambitious,no desire to improve themselves and make sure they do well and earn well, but expecting me to share what I earn with them or go without. Have met a lot of people like this, hangers on. They think I am going to work hard while they chat online or watch tv. My partner who Ive been with for nearly ten years is same as me, very hard work working, smart, well educated, resourceful, skilled, able to solve problems rather than just dwelling on them or moaning, pays his way well, so we make a perfect fit. I would be better off single otherwise. Before he came along I couldnt stand it when a lazy guy wanted me to date him knowing full we we had nothing in common. He can keep his debts and he can keep his problems caused by lack of working hard and money to himself.

 

[charlotte craig]

I completely rebuilt this one totally in my kitchen. Ha! ha! An advantage to being single. I made my own gas tanks too. The two sides combined held about 9 gallons of gas. I liked riding not constantly pulling over for fuel. Ha! ha!

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wow you are smart

 

[insecure]

Turn-off: People who try to sound more interesting than they really are.

 

[insecure]

Just put someone on my ignore list.
Arrogance, bragging, being smug does not work for me.
Lecturing about things you don't know.
Trying to sound important by having lots of "secrets" about the simplest of things, then making a big fuss about them, does not make you interesting.
You are the weakest link...
You know who you are.

 

[Claudia1794]

Turn-off: People who try to sound more interesting than they really are.

What would be an example of that? Haha...I think I may be guilty of that because if I think something is interesting or something I'm really into I probably try to make it sound interesting.

 

[insecure]

What would be an example of that? Haha...I think I may be guilty of that because if I think something is interesting or something I'm really into I probably try to make it sound interesting.

This is not about you, Claudia

 

[Cherubino]

This is not about you, Claudia

but it's about a woman ... right?

 

[Claudia1794]

This is not about you, Claudia

Oh ok... I still think I might do that though.

 

[insecure]

but it's about a woman ... right?

Yes
Won't mention any names, I told her she's on my ignore list.

 

[MrLonely86]

If you meet someone, is there anything in particular that attracts you in this person, or on the other hand turns you off?

I like when someone is talented but humble and quiet about it. That is huge turn on, but also rare to find.

And turn off is total opposite of what, when someone doesn't even wanna talk to you cause she considers her league higher.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Yes
Won't mention any names, I told her she's on my ignore list.

It's totally me. I'm on everyone's ignore list

 

[insecure]

It's totally me. I'm on everyone's ignore list

No, it's not you, Callie.
We haven't chatted privately, I think, and you seem like a nice lady, as far as I can tell from your messages.
Besides the woman that is so annoying she ended up on my ignore list knows this, I told her I would do it.

 

[TheSkaFish]

Turn-off: People who try to sound more interesting than they really are.

I generally agree.

But that word "interesting" gets thrown around a lot - it's kind of vague and means different things to different people.

What does "interesting" mean to you?

 

[Finished]

What does "interesting" mean to you?

 

[Minus]

You know who you are.

It would be better if you didn't use threads to attack members.