Chad, Cad, fresia is the difference??
We're all gonna die before the planet we're stuck on dies.
Every nuke owned buy every country coagulated into a single spot before being collectively set off would be equally visible on the surface of Earth as an explosion from the distance of the surface of Mars...and Earth as a planet would still survive...humans just wouldn't...and I think that's a very large flaw in our thinking.
This Rock is 4,530,000,000 years old, if we go by a rough Darwinian sketch, we've only been here for 500,000 Years.
Chad, Cad, fresia it, it doesn't matter.
Nukes? Don't matter.
Who you have sexual relations with? Doesn't matter.
Who you have marital relations with? Doesn't matter.
There's a whole Hell of a lot of feels floating around, with not a lot of tethered real world merit, and that's a very large part of the problem.
"But at least Chad got to pass their seed" is the argument, to which I rebuttal: "To what ******* properly intellectually comprehensive avail??"
And at about that point, I am man atop the mountain, waiting for an answer from the sky which shall never fall upon me.
And it's because of this, why I just don't wrap my head around such social conundrums.
Freedom is only ever acquired through deep personal introspection. Everything thereafter, Masculine or Feminine, is kind of a social front, a farce, or clout chasing if you prefer, if you think about it enough.