Recent content by arkitek4

I believe my friend you have a vocation. you should become a priest, being celibate is the life of priest and nuns that only a few can live in. based from your narration you are better being a priest than 30% of them because you have the will to stay away from a relationship and adhere to it...

I believe there is always a reason for everything, why we get sick, why our job applications doesn't work, why this and that but the rest of the world gets what they want on a silver platter. But I do know based on experience that, we do not really get what we all aspire for in life. What we...

You are one confused 16 year old boy, I hope you find your friend soon. Note: if you are looking for a friend, you should be the one to start the conversation. Also heavy metal songs are my kind of music, your not alone on that kind of music. Good luck.

I beg to disagree with you on that assumption that no one here was ever loved? Not all of us has been through the humility of being eased out by blood family, as I know very well. I have been nurtured from the ground up by parents and family under the Catholic way of raising children. It is the...

Erase them is I dont think so, maybe you should live with these and use these to get yourself work. you know in my country, I applied to about 100 companies, 17 interviews and 5000 pesos expenses costs later no one hired me. I applied for work abroad, sending and handling out a total of 11...

My friend then you are looking for something or someone in the wrong places in time and space. Troubling yourself with such thoughts thats just sick. I too was overweight before, I too was without a friend, I too was loveless for over 2 decades. In fact when I graduated college I landed a job...

Subjecting yourself 7 to 8 years without friends is one deep hell of a life. Unless you are a catholic monk that is expected if not its a paradox to me. 7 to 8 years? Wow and i thought I was into some deep problem where I stand. Some people might suggest group clubs or volunteering to some...

Why is it that most songs nowadays are about depression? anyway, why am I asking this when the songs I listen to are mostly death metal. Har har har!!!

Loneliness my friend is a far more desolate place especially when you are old and grey. While you are still young and mobile better decide to go the other way than your usual street you often walk on. if say you always smoke marlboro, maybe a change of brand needs be done. To some people...

May I suggest to you guys instead of using this web site (for lonely people) to log on to Yahoo messenger instead. How can you know for sure about who you are chatting with if you do not see them on cam. Yahoo messenger can do both chatting and camera to camera dating or whatever you call it...

You are really into some deep seating emotional thingi here bro, but you are not alone. I believe a lot of guys who log on here has some kind of pent up anger within them. I guess life is a *****! Ain't no life anyone is living and not having some kind of pent up anger about something and or...

In your opinion, what particular issue that was discussed that bothered you more, and least? For me, life is really unfair. But it is unfair only for people who seemed unable to see beyond the depressions of life, unless of course if one is subjected forcefully towards depression like the story...

just like video games my friends, if you treat life like a video game then things might turn out good for a lot of depressed people. Im not saying to go out with a gun or a knife in hand, rather live your life in utter dependence to survive. Maybe life for a lot of people are depressing because...

Yes ain't it a *****! Same here in my country. Salaries stays the same, but the prices of basic commodities rises. Imagine even instant noodles prices rises by 20% a year, now that's a ******! But luckily I found work in the middle east, to the rising prices can be accommodated. I know how...

I used to think that success where only for those with money to spend for appurtenances, for those who's families are well entrenched in society, to those who graduated in well known universities. Because even as I graduated from college, getting a job was difficult. As in I could not land one...