Recent content by Avalon

Thank you all for the wonderful support! I know that I have my own way of dealing with these things. It just irked me the gf thought her way was superior. Part of me is jealous and frustrated that she has got so many friends/work connections, whereas I have none. I've also wondered if its a...

Yesterday I had a row with my gf over a stupid thing, texting happy birthday to her friends. She had a few friends/colleagues with birthdays this week and she decided to text them all yesterday after dinner. She spent a good 30 minutes doing this. Chatting back and forth. I didn't mind it...

Yeah, we do that every month. We take 1 day trips across the border, to Canada, or down to Seattle. It gets her very excited and in a good mood for the entire weekend! I had the chance to ask and really hammer something out earlier this year when we were just geting back together, but...

I think its a combination of both. It stems from last year, when she left me without explaining why. We got back together this year. She apologized, but still didn't really explain why. I didn't really pursue the issue. Nevertheless, whenever I perceive her acting strange, I immediately go...

I'm trying to stay calm and writing down what happens everyday since Saturday (since the last day I saw her) Sunday - She was at dinner party with her mom. We didn't contact each other. I hung out with my buddies. Nothing out of the ordinary. Monday - I texted her in the afternoon. She...

Thanks for this advice. I spent yesterday hanging out with my buddies, and doing pretty much all of the above lol. But somewhere, in the back of my mind, I was wondering what she was doing. Will she find it weird if I don't text her for a day or two?

Thanks. Yeah she is, shes a good girl. I can't detect anything out of the ordinary. I guess I'll let it slide, for now, and wait. She tells me she's going out with her mom tomorrow, and won't be able to come over. Still, I dont' feel secure. She maybe lying to me. I don't know. It's...

Today, I'm worried my gf went on a short half-day trip with this guy. This morning , she called me and asked me which highway we took when we went to a factory outlet about 3 weeks ago. Then she said "talk to you later", which sounds suspicious, as if to stop me from bothering her. I don't...

Thanks guys. I made some headway on the issue. Found out it was a guy in her class. I asked her, subtlely. She told me her stupid classmates weren't pulling their weight in their project. And I asked casually "oh, u mean the one that called u late at nite?" and she said "yeah" I still feel...

My gf and I have been together for about 3 years now, we're both in our 20's. Last night something happened that really unnerved me. Late at night (11pm) she received a phone call from a guy. She told him that she was doing homework. She also told him she was feeling better from her cold...

Thanks for your inputs everyone! i really appreciate it ... dealing with panic has never been easy for me, but I'm glad theres solutions I can try when I need them

I could really use some help dealing with panic. I'm frequently overwhelmed by it. The slightest thing will cause me to worry endlessly, and completely destroy my mood. 1) Yesterday, my gf and I got into a talk about our finances. I felt ok at the time but when we got home, I began to panic...

I'm no model worker, in fact, I probably figure in the bottom third. I really needed to hear that. Thank you.

Thanks everyone, you guys are awesome! I'm really losing it tonite. I'm mindlessly googling other jobs and pacing back and forth in the house. I hope I'll be ok too... I'm the somewhere in the middle type of worker. Anyone have any tips to relieve the stress i'm feeling right now? Maybe...

It was a madhouse at work today. Six people were fired due to poor performance and downsizing. Two had to be hauled out by security, literally screaming and kicking because they did not want to leave. Maybe they had kids to feed, rent to pay. The whole thing has rattled the entire office...