Recent content by Ronald

IT CAN BE DONE. I actually found a wonderful girl on Plenty of Fish. I've been with her for 2 years now and she doesn't drink and has never done drugs. Dating sites can work, if you are diligent in how you choose people (I only met two people from POF over a period of 4 years and was in a...

Sorat, you are definitely not the only one and I'd say 99.99% are in the same boat. Some people just don't mix well for whatever reason, but I don't think it should be taken as a bad comment on ourselves. Sure, it's good to strive to understand people and maybe some day, we'll understand why...

Hi Kindster, Good inquiry! Here's my two cents worth. Medications: No, drugs will make things worse in the long run and often worse in the short run too. Talks to Therapists: Yes, if you can find a good one that has your best interests at heart. If they just want to put you on drugs, than...

Well, at least you have the right problem spotted. Finding friends is difficult mainly because of self-esteem issues. Some people think the problem is everyone else, or that "they don't know what to say" so you are ahead in the game. Hm, you say you believe all these negative things about...

If you're not comfortable with kissing for the first time, than just hold her hand. I agree with most replies here - there are no secret rules. The more you talk to her and share with each other, the more your relationship will grow. That is until you start stopping it and start making it...

Hi John, I'm glad that several have already agreed that this isn't a stupid post. Frankly, I believe everyone suffers from this to some degree at times. I had a similar issue with anxiety about communicating and saying the right things, getting tongue tied or slow to respond. I rarely feel...

I really need to drink more water as a routine ... I feel like talking with someone ... Cool, I imagine that people who sign up on a forum with such a name are likely a lot less pretentious than elsewhere ...

Hi John, I'm glad that several have already agreed that this isn't a stupid post. Frankly, I believe everyone has and does suffer from this to some degree. I similarly had an issue with anxiety about talking and saying the right things, getting tongue tied and slow to respond. I rarely feel...