Recent content by Ymir

Maybe they want to call it a disorder so that it can have specific treatment, but I don't agree that it is the right strategy on this case. I don't even agree it's even related to "bitterness" at all. Bitterness is a common emotion in the human spectrum; bitter people who are a threat to...

Eeeeh, I used to take the initiative but that never worked out before, not for a comitted relationship anyway. Gave up on that for other reasons, though I must say it did let me down a little that I could never get it right. A couple of years ago, at times it felt as if though I wasn't worth...

Everything is REALLY bad for you. Like alcohol, sex itself, food, romantic relationships... Everything can lead to addiction. Don't see why porn would be a big, special deal; most people can tell reality from fiction, and porn can be in the form of erotica, which emphasizes the feelings behind...

Why is nothing working out the way I want to?

It's too good to be true.

I bought the nicest smelling perfume. My nose is therefore always attached to my wrist.

Spend less than you earn, hahahaha. That's basically the gist of it. And if you have enough money saved, you should put a little bit of it to work for you and invest it. That's what I know, anyway;

Anyone I can handle in an intimate basis for more than a couple of months is good enough for me. Could be a girl, or a dude, or somewhere in between, could be anyone really. I can't really visualize a perfect partner for me.

Don't even know what Ska posted but, yeah. No one's going to get everything out of life and there's some stuff we need to let go so we can enjoy our lives. Accepting one thing or two every now and then didn't kill anybody.

When will it end :club:

It depends, really. High school doesn't really teach people what they'll need to know for most jobs; it's hard to know what you want to be when you don't know what most jobs actually are and what you will have to know to get them. I think getting a degree is a must if you are looking for...

Yeah, I had a serious talk with her and said that I would not approve her relationship but I wouldn't argue with her about it anymore. On the other hand, I also wouldn't go the extra mile to help her when she clearly had other priorities in mind, because I can only do so much. The only problem...

(Yes I am aware I am one of them.) I've been a bit inactive recently because life gets in the way and I've been far too drained to offer any advice to people, but I am back with this thread because something is frustrating me very much. I have a very close friend. But she's getting on my...

I had fat free yogurt with a spoonful of sugar and another of cherry jam. New favorite tbh.

Well, there's your problem. I know the frustration but don't give it space to grow and poison you. As for your other problem, unfortunately: 1) no one should be talking to you if they don't want to (I can see some reasons why) 2) you'll only get better at it if you put yourself out there and...