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I can relate, seems like that's the only missing piece of my life. Don't know if it'll ever happen for me or not, I mean I'm not ancient by any means (38) but still I haven't been in any meaningful relationships in my whole life.

Well, about to be 37 in a few months and over the years some girls have been interested but these girls literally slept around with almost anyone and I didn't want to catch any STD's so I declined. Recently a woman that was married and was a coworker told me how her husband won't sleep with her...

@ Wadoki, my only answer is when I was growing up I was sort of an ugly duckling. I was very overweight, had thick glasses, poor posture and was shy. That lead to me being kind of socially withdrawn and that stuck into adulthood. In highschool and college no girls paid me the time of day and...

Before I write just wanted to say I appreciate these forums because most of the things I write on here I'll never be able to say to my family or friends. On to it then...A few days ago I'm at home talking with my mom after I got off of work. We were basically talking about how her family...

Lately I've been feeling more confident that soon my situation will change financially and I can finally move out of my folks house again and restart my life, I also feel confident that I can finally find a relationship for the first time in my life but this one major worry always hits...

Technically no, this third grade girl kissed me on the lips when I was in second grade...which she just did out of the blue and my mom was pissed, lol. Ever since, no such luck.

Well, I know that women are interested in me and occasionally I do get asked out, but at the same time these women have issues going on that I don't want to be a part of, I swear the last 6 women that have asked me either had drug issues, jail records, were extremely shy so sent someone else to...

@Retrospective81, I guess I got confirmation on her situation via a Facebook post that she put up, saying something like 'It hurts when you love someone that doesn't love you back'. So of course people send her encouragement and she said she's lonely and is sick of running into losers. Hello...

Lol, that's very true!

For like the last 15 years or so I hated this day. I never had anyone to give anything to and it's a hard day for me. My parents always invite me to eat dinner with them but I'll feel like such a loser so I never go. I do my best to just disappear that day. Now it's so ingrained in me to...

This is a bit of a hard one. Personally I don't think she'll take you seriously in a relationship because you two have been good friends and I don't think she's ready to 'settle down' yet with one person. If she's still dating those other two guys don't play yourself like that. Probably best...

I agree with everything you wrote. I just felt that circumstances weren't in my favor over and over again during my life, and that's not the only time something like that has happened to me. The Facebook thing is a good idea, I think I'll try that. Thanks Revengineer.

Do any of you feel like fate conspires against you? I think about this a lot because it seems like I'm always too little too late, like if I was in another location a little earlier that my life would be a lot easier and better. For instance there is this woman who I felt I should've ended up...

In the same boat. The city that I grew up in is quickly dying, no good jobs hardly, little worthwhile women and little opportunity. My friends that I met in college have been asking me for years to come to their city which is like three hours away and now I think is the perfect time. I have...

Fantasy: I thought if I was nice the right woman would see that, appreciated it, we'll fall in love and have a beautiful family. Reality: I learned that being nice to some women puts them off guard because they're either used to being treated like crap and accepts this, or I'm too good to be...

I definitely feel that way, but now I feel things are slowly going in my favor. 25 isn't a bad age to feel like you haven't reached your potential, you still have alot of time. I'm 33 and I thought by this time I'd have a good paying job, a wife, kids and a nice house, lol. Currently I have...

Best to get out of that situation if you can. My situation isn't as bad as yours but my dad is always negative to and if I tell him a goal I have he'll remind of a bad thing that happened to me and say it could happen again. I just learn to ignore it when he's negative

Hardworking, goal and family oriented, reasonably intelligent, cares about her body, strong in the face of adversity, honest. As far as looks I'm not seeking a model type but I'd go for some height, between 5'7 and 6'0, and curves are always good but not at extreme levels:)

@Case, more than likely ill try that approach but it'll take some time get use to because I'm not use to being that way. @Dr. Life, I do agree that I tend to I over think things sometimes, I was just going off my experience. It just seems to be my common denominator that if I'm nice I'm...

Alright, I've always been a friendly and approachable guy. I smile alot(probably too much) and I'm not afraid to start conversations with women I'm interested in in general. Once I talk I can be open, funny, kind and helpful...and unfortunately this may be why I'm having trouble finding a...