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No, the *key* to my post is that *when* I stopped looking, the way I acted around *others* changed. I didn't look at every social situation as a chance to be rejected. I didn't care. I wasn't looking for someone. I just talked for the sake of talking. And it impressed somebody, because suddenly...

Funny, I found love when I gave up looking. I think *when* I gave up looking, I gave up some of my ways that frightened women off... Having a "devil may care" attitude worked better than having a "Needy, want to be loved" sign hanging around my neck like before...

PM'ing behind the scenes? Heck, none! Or so it seems. Some of these people that 'fess up they are so lonely, need friends, you PM them, get them to add you as a friend to their Myspace, whatever, you send them a message, and you never hear a d*mn thing back... Talk about feeling rejected among...

You're right, that sounds pretty bad...

I hate being the optimist (because I'm so pessimistic), but here goes: Why not just take his call and talk to him? See where it leads? No accusations, no recriminations, just talk. See how it goes. Keep an open mind, but be suspicious as well. Protect yourself. You are the most important...

I hope you respond to my PM...

lovehurtme, I have an old friend I reconnected with this past week. The very next day, she posted she had a hot date. Later, her status went to "I hate all men". I asked her what was wrong, and she said he'd taken her gas can to bring her back some kerosene (it is cold there), didn't return it...

I loved my Dad very much. Saw him last year, when he called and asked me to pick him up because he had to get out of the house. He was in time for my daughter's 3rd birthday. Four months later, I received a strange email from a friend who lived a couple towns over, saying she thought she saw an...

The Scientist by Coldplay

honeysuckle, that ain't nothing. I was 28 before I lost my virginity (unless you count the sexual abuse...) :( As for girlfriends, it was always "almost". Chased them away by being too needy, looking back. Came close one time as a senior in high school. Probably not approved b/c from wrong side of...

Here because I Googled that I was very lonely... and came upon a link to here... Not good at making friends, or lasting ones anyways. Acquaintances, ok. Ok in groups of 1 or 2, after that, not. Not very secure in myself. Realize I need someone outside my wife for support, for when she is not...