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Hi there! I haven`t been on this site for a looong time. I was very lonely and depressed with problems meeting people, and even when i did meet people, i couldn`t seem to make friends. I think the last message i posted was i was going to try internet dating and then i kinda disappeared from this...

.... i`m trying internet dating. Will keep you posted.

I was 25 when i had my first girlfriend. You have plenty of time my friend. However, having said that, my advice is to not wait for it. I regret not having the nerve to just try to speak to girls. Many opportunities have been waisted because of my lack of confidence. I`m working on it..... i...

Cheers guys. And Jasmin, you`re right, i did tell you to stay positive. I try very hard to be positive and it is working. I`m going through a particually honeysuckle time right now. I`m sure it will end, but it sure as hell doesn`t feel like it!

I haven`t always been like this. I miss being happy.

Zoom out. I like that. Thanks Caesium. I need to see the big picture. I still feel honeysuckle, but good advice.

What am i thinking? I thinking what a total f*****g idiot i am. I`m thinking how useless i am. My thoughts are pretty bleak and dark right now.

I appreciate what your saying, really i do. But i`m running on empty right now. I`m having difficulty seeing the point. Need to sort my head out.

Don`t wait for it. It`s always someone else that find love when not looking. Don`t know about you, but i`m not one of the lucky ones. I`ve been waiting five years and nothing. I`ve started looking, but still nothing. Suprise suprise.

Right now, everything

empty bitter angry

I`m feeling really low at the moment. I`m trying so hard to be positive, but it`s difficult at times like this when my hearts not in it. Don`t know what to do. Right now i just want to close my eyes and not wake up.

Good on ya mate! I`m kinda thinking of doing something like that myself....

It made sense... just lol! It`s too easy to lie back and just accept things the way they are. All i want to do is lie on my bed and be left alone. Except, that`s the problem. I really don`t want to be on my own. It`s all very confusing! I`m doing my f*****g BEST not to let it beat me. I`m aware...

Never. I feel awkward enough if i`m with friends, never mind on my own

I think meaningful connections are hard to come by for most people. I`m desperately trying to climb out of the rut i`ve got myself into, and that involves trying to make new friends. It`s hard, but i`m not gonna let it beat me! Neither should you!!! You HAVE to keep trying, i mean, what`s the...

I do loads of sports and exercise. It get`s rid of pent up anger and makes me tired. I can then sleep. I`ve already been to the gym, and i`m going kickboxing later!

I think these guys are right. You`re doing the right thing in getting out and joining clubs. It beats staying in and picking your spots, right? Acquaintances are better than having no one, and maybe one day one of those asquaintances will become a friend. Don`t give up!

Thanks Bluey