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If you're alive and making an effort to make your life better. If you're not only alive but living life then those are successes enough. There is no threshold, its all relative to each and every individual.

As a person who studies geological sciences, I can never enjoy these films despite trying to. :S. Its akin to The Happening to biologists.

Well that is a bit tricky I do admit but my post was to mention that there is things that you can improve on and in effect play the cards that you are given (whatever they may be). I mean, I find myself in a better position with women than most people (fortuitously), but I am no Don Juan, far...

Fair enough, you're entitled to your own opinions. I would have preferred a counter argument rebutting my points instead of a rather cheap swipe at a person genuinely trying to help. @Remedy - Hope you do well buddy. If you would prefer to talk more with controversial me, sticking to PM would...

I was going for their attitudes rather than anything else. If I were to condense everything I meant, i'd just say that if you think of yourself in a negative light, so will others. @packyourbags - I have no idea whether that is a joke or a swipe at me, either way I couldn't get your message at...

Well, if theres anything I would hazard to guess about women, it would be that they are more finely tuned to emphasize than anything else. And I think maybe, subconsciously, if you have that lack of belief in your heart then the woman would probably sense it as well but in a way that makes her...

Kind and respectful aren't traits people find attractive, its traits everyone should be expected to have already. Your lack of confidence and utter belief that looks are the be all end all strike me as what makes you dire with women. Read my post somewhere above.

Welcome, mate. I'm from UK too, freezing my ass off!

I feel I am quite good looking, dress well, and is reasonably gifted intellectually. I am financially secure.. I am able to experience things that most people don't like fly freely..integrate well into a new society where most would just stay within their own closes circle of friends (different...

Perhaps Doc, very plausible. But I disagree with #4, while they do want to stay in the 'comfort zone', I would really struggle to say that they have a DESIRE to stay in such circumstances. And superiority? Well I can see that but I would not say it is an all encompassing complex. Surely you dont...

Ah, but they have ALWAYS been visually orientated. However, it is not a 'cold hard truth' because besides looks and height, almost everything else can be worked on - things that women ALSO visually notice. It is too easy to focus on looks when there's a multitude of other things that can be...

Oh ffs guys, while I am willing to give the 'Doc' benefit of the doubt, he strikes me as someone who studies the subject but does not LIVE the subject. I get this feeling that he's letting his view towards women creep into his 'studies' and as a result, string together vague explanations of...

Being alone in the sense of having private time is vital for me, and I'm sure for alot of other people. However, I'm sure that perpetual loneliness is not healthy for anyone. Humans are animals, and social animals at that - we function as a 'society' and I'm just saying this from my own...

IQ and knowledge tend to go hand in hand with each other, but not always. Lets not forget that while one may have a high IQ, its what he does with it that matters, whether he uses it actively to increase his knowledge or increase the depth of his already acquired knowledge. There is a saying...

I love the night. I get more things done then - revision, relaxation, etc. Well, I probably get more things done because night just feels more serene to be fair. I see the day as a time to do active stuff like sports

I think I am too good of a person sometimes. I'd do things that other people wouldn't do for me, and is one of the reasons why I'm feeling lonely at the moment. That being said, I'm far from perfect and definitely have a 'bad' side as well

Is spot on. Loneliness has many shapes and forms other than the obvious physical sense. I'm certain no one suspects of me being lonely in the slightest bit and have plenty of friends surrounding me but I still feel extremely lonely because I seem to think on a different wavelength to everyone...

The problem here is inner confidence and to be honest as much as I'd like to say 'have more confidence', it doesn't really help does it? It comes through what a wise man calls 'false head' (Read the Last Lecture, amazing book, imo). Basically, the only way you can get confidence is by feeling...

Truth be told, I have it better than most people around me. I hide my loneliness..and its one where even if I have people around me, I can still feel lonely. I've had a few circumstances where friends tell me they wish they had a certain aspect of my life in theirs, blah blah but far from...

I'm thinking whether loneliness is perhaps something I can ever be rid of. Its hard to imagine the prospects of not having it when i've been lonely for most part of my adult life. Im thinking I need earplugs on because I can now hear neighbours trumpeting and singing Old lang syne and i'm in my...