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    My goodbyes...

    Hey everyone, I wasn't sure which forum to put this in. In most forums that I join, the intro forum also serves as a 'Farewells' forum so I decided to put it here. So I've decided to leave ALL. There are a few reasons for this: I've been mind-hunting for the last few days now and I've come to...
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    I feel like a scum bag

    For people like us who have been devoid of attention all out lives, when we get it, it can get addicting. So I say enjoy it while you can!
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    I think I'm really shallow. How do I get over it?

    I guess a lot of it stems from my general distrust of humanity and how I feel like everyone in this world is selfish (I feel my parents were selfish too for having me because they only wanted someone to take care of them when they get old and to give them a good lifestyle. I've actually told...
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    It's okay to be a misanthrope

    There's something beautifully poetic about the OP's post that I really like. And I see myself agreeing with a lot of it, especially, these paragraphs: This Misanthropy, for me, isn't "hatred" as such as much as it is not caring enough to be around humans, get to know them, engage in all the...
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    Can't watch sports because I feel envious...

    ... of all the attention and the success the sportsmen/women have. I'm not a real sports guy, I don't play any sport nor do I ever watch any games or anything (the only ones that I do watch is WWE - occassionally) but when someone else in my home is watching a sport and I can't do anything to...
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    I think I'm really shallow. How do I get over it?

    Before you start telling me that I'm an a-hole, let me explain. All through my childhood, I haven't been attracted to a lot of girls. And the ones that I have been attracted to, I would automatically assume that they are "out of my league" because they would already be getting a lot of...
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    John Gray was right.

    I started a similar thread here in the loneliness section to talk about similar stuff (probably the same stuff) before it was rudely hijacked and closed. It probably triggered a few members here so I can understand why that happened. I'm a guy (your profile tells me that you are too) and I feel...
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    A growing amount of hatred for people and an obsessive compulsion to disconnect

    I just want to share this and feel better. Everyday, I feel like I hate people more and more and this includes everyone I know/don't know. This isn't the kind of hatred that makes me want to go and butcher them with a blunt object but is the kind that makes me never want to see their face again...
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    Why do I want to be friends with a girl so bad?

    A few different things are going on in my head right now but I can't seem to pinpoint what they are so I haven't been participating here a lot. This is an attempt to get started. One of the things that's really bothering me right now is this. I want to be friends with a girl really bad. I don't...
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    This is really pathetic

    I once met a girl on a flight in the most beautiful encounter ever and while we didn't get into a relationship or anything (I don't even know her name or remember how she looked like (mostly because I was too f'd up to even look up at her)), I still remember the encounter/day as one of my life's...
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    Finally at peace

    Alternative: I've noticed that simple subtleties like facial hair or an ear piercing can significantly alter your looks. Have you ever tried that? I mean without my facial hair (haven't grown it yet but I'm planning to), I look like a 13 year old. With it, I look my age. And then there's the...
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    Are my issues scarred into my brain and permanent?

    Honestly, there were so many little parts of your post that I wanted to quote in my reply that by the end of it, I just said to myself "to heck with it!" and proceeded to just refer it. I mean, seriously, I'm exactly like you. I have spent a while here and if there's one thing I learned (that...
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    Reading in preference to conversation with other humans

    rdor, I'm sorry for sounding rude but your arguments make no sense to me at all. I have a couple of friends at college and all of them are introverts. During my breaks, I prefer to sit alone and listen to music or play games on my phone, yes, even when my friends are around. They just find...
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    Advice from a Divorced Man

    Experiencing all this, the positives and the negatives is more or less a fantasy to me. I might never have this but I can keep dreaming. Oh, sorry. Not valid for me...
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    What is a loser?

    This thread, for some weird reason, is a real eye-opener for me. I haven't ever judged myself or someone else as a loser, even when I was at my lowest and I had failed at everything, I hadn't. I knew that I didn't deserve my failures and that I deserved a lot better than what I got. Funnily, I...
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    Does anyone else feel like this?

    I don't mean it for them, I mean it for myself. I'm the retarded one and I don't know if I'll ever belong. It's like if I come across a random group of strangers, I'll feel like I lack a certain form of intelligence or competence or skill that is needed to communicate with them, even if I don't...
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    Withdrawing back into total Isolation

    This isn't something that you'd probably want to hear in your given state of mind but I'l still go out and say it: You don't have you live for someone you know. Be selfish, live for yourself.
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    Does anyone else feel like this?

    One of my biggest problems right now is that I feel like a retarded kid stuck in a limbo between the school kid who wanted attention and the guy who's socially retarded and knows nothing about the world. Here's an example: I'm a guy and I often overhear other guys speaking of their encounters...
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    The oddly optimistic days

    How do you deal with them? You know, when you feel optimistic and good (sort of) for no good reason. For me, it's weird because this isn't something that I have know or I can relate with. So I keep wishing that I go back to feeling crappy and down so I can be in my warm-dark place again.
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    Being cheated on really screws up your self-esteem/confidence

    Hey, I have a terrible understanding of human beings and almost no understanding of relationships but as just someone who read your enritre post (and noticed the number of times you used the word "immature" for your former love interest), I feel like she did that to get back at you. You were...
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