Doubt The Rabbit
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Do you think parents should be blamed for some of our social ineptiude? I know for a fact that some of my social quirks and biased views on the world is directly linked to my parents. I remember one of the first things I learned at the age of 5 was a quote from my mother:
"Expect the worst out of everyone so when they let you down, you won't be surprised."
And she learned that from her mother's actions.
That isn't to say we aren't responsible for our own actions, but we are what we learn. There isn't anything new or original about any of us. And sometimes, the stuff we learn from our parents is flat out wrong.
Still, it sticks. They're your parents. Of course it's only instinct that you draw from their "life lesssons," regardless of how wrong they may have been. It's difficult throwing away the teachings of the people who more or less raised you.
"Expect the worst out of everyone so when they let you down, you won't be surprised."
And she learned that from her mother's actions.
That isn't to say we aren't responsible for our own actions, but we are what we learn. There isn't anything new or original about any of us. And sometimes, the stuff we learn from our parents is flat out wrong.
Still, it sticks. They're your parents. Of course it's only instinct that you draw from their "life lesssons," regardless of how wrong they may have been. It's difficult throwing away the teachings of the people who more or less raised you.