I will kick the living crap out of the next person who says to me 'cheer up'

Everyone says it.

My dad, my mother, the guy at the shop, the bus driver.

The next person who says it will get their ******* head caved in I swear, because I've had just about enough of it.

*hug*

sorry CAS i understand.

dead said:

*hug*

sorry CAS i understand.

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No, I'm serious. I don't think you quite understand my temper.

Getting told that, does get old pretty fast.

Don't take for granted that people don't mean it. I swear I'm nearly at breaking point.

CAS said:

Don't take for granted that people don't mean it. I swear I'm nearly at breaking point.

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I was referring to having people constantly telling you to "cheer up".

Oh I see what you mean.

I'd just love to wipe away the smug simles of people who seem to delight in saying it to peope who are obviously downtrodden.

I don't think that they mean ill, it just can get grating.

..please don't kick me

:O

a lot of people say that because they fully understand what you're going through

and it's hard and pretty frustrating i know what you mean

can i hug?

* cautiously approaches for a hug*

*hugs*

How could I ever kick you?

You're adorable.

Cheer up man...it's all good

^^^ not funny, imho.
meh.

It's like 'how are you' and 'what's up'

You know how I ******* am, and you know nothing is up.

Punisher said:

It's like 'how are you' and 'what's up'

You know how I ******* am, and you know nothing is up.

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I think people just say it out of habit.... *hug*

SophiaGrace said:

Punisher said:

It's like 'how are you' and 'what's up'

You know how I ******* am, and you know nothing is up.

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I think people just say it out of habit.... *hug*

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*hugs back*

I Know. I'm just being grumpy. Sorry.

I hope in time you will find your Cheer. Up on onwards from there on. I think my quest will help. Its coming

Cheer up, CAS. XD AHahahahaha!!

You asked for it.

CAS said:

Everyone says it.

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I share your feelings on the subject. It's all well and good to tell someone to cheer up, but it's certainly be nice if they had a suggestion as to how to go and do such a thing.

I also hate the people who ask what's wrong multiple times as well. Please, when I want to tell you what's wrong I'll tell you. Asking 10 times will only piss someone off.

It seems to me that almost all our sadnesses are moments of tension, which we feel as paralysis because we no longer hear our astonished emotions living. Because we are alone with the unfamiliar presence that has entered us; because everything we trust and are used to is for a moment taken away from us; because we stand in the midst of a transition where we cannot remain standing. That is why the sadness passes: the new presence inside us, the presence that has been added, has entered our heart, has gone into its innermost chamber and is no longer even there, - is already in our bloodstream. And we don't know what it was. We could easily be made to believe that nothing happened, and yet we have changed, as a house that a guest has entered changes. We can't say who has come, perhaps we will never know, but many signs indicate that the future enters us in this way in order to be transformed in us, long before it happens. And that is why it is so important to be solitary and attentive when one is sad: because the seemingly uneventful and motionless moment when our future steps into us is so much closer to life than that other loud and accidental point of time when it happens to us as if from outside. The quieter we are, the more patient and open we are in our sadnesses, the more deeply and serenely the new presence can enter us, and the more we can make it our own, the more it becomes our fate.

Letter Eight (12 August 1904) Written by Rainer Maria Rilke

Cheer up dude!! It's all cos of them overginas be pulling wankers