revanushka
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Hello everyone!I need your advice on this.And sorry for my english.
There is a girl i met 2 weeks ago from a common friend who asked to go meet her and take some notes for him.I did meet her took the notes and after 2 days we met again so i would give her the notes back.We stayed on the street and chatted.When she was about to leave she said to me to text her and go for coffee sometime.
After 2 days i texted her and said there was gonna be a party in our dormitory(we live in the same dormitory with her,but in different buildings)
but she said she had left for the weekend to visit her dentist.We chated a bit and then said goodbye.This was 2 fridays ago.A week ago on tuesday i texted her to say hello and ask if she was back.She replied 3 hours later and apologized for not replying earlier,saying she was asleep.We exchanged 20 messages and i asked her out for the next day on wednesday.
Next day we meet,go out have a long walk,go drink a coffee together and generally we had a great time together and i started liking her.She happened to like horror movies(and i adore horror movies) so i asked her to go watch a movie together-without any ultirior motive to bed her or anything.She said :Why not,we could arrange it sometime.This on wednesday.
Next day i decide not to text her cuz i didnt want to rush things.So i text her on friday and ask her if we'll see that movie after all.She replies i'll tell you tommorow.I reply if i should at least get a movie for tommororw and she said yes get one.
On saturday i was waiting all day and she wouldnt send.When it was like 21:30 she texts me and asks what im doing.(At the time i was thinking that maybe i rushed things and did wrong to ask her watch a movie together at 2nd date,and felt a bit bad.)I replied im at my dormitory and just relaxing and asked what she was doing.She replied nothing so i asked her to meet outside my dorm and we'd decide what to do-watch a movie or go for a walk.She said i prefer to watch a movie.She comes in 5 mins and we watch the movie and generally had a great time and i tried to make her as comfortable as possible,since she was first time in my room.After the movie i thought what to do(she was still with me):Go and kiss her or dont kiss her so she wouldnt think i want only to bed her.I decided not to,and do it on our 3rd date.She said thanks for the movie and left.
Next day(sunday) i call her at 15:00 and she wont pick up.I text her after 10 min and ask how was she.No reply.I didnt know what was wrong.I didnt call again,nor texted.
Next day on monday while i was finishing my lunch at the dormitory restaurant i noticed her sitting 2 tables away from me.I look at her and the moment whe looked at me i smile and greet her and stand up and go sit with her.She was sitting with her best friend,whom i didnt know.I sit next to her friend as the seat next to her was broken(bad luck) and the moment i begin talking(to say hello etc) she takes her phone and leaves,as if to talk(or indeed to talk).It was exactly at the moment i sat there.You cant imagine my frustration at the moment.I was sitting with an unknown person and didnt know what to do or say.I tried to be relaxed (didnt do it well)and talk with her friend.Her friend (female) asked me where do i know her from,where im from etc as i she didnt know anything about me.I was about to leave when she comes back and acts as if nothing happened,said hello said she had lessons later.I was so frustrated from before that i couldnt think,so i said i too had lessons,greeted them and left.
My questions are what's going on?Why didnt she answear on sunday.And yesterday why did she leave the moment i went to her table?And what i should do now?I really like her,and dont know if i did something wrong.Maybe she expected more of me when she came at my place to watch the movie but i DIDNT WANT to rush things since it was only 2nd date.Any advice?And sorry for this lengthy post.
There is a girl i met 2 weeks ago from a common friend who asked to go meet her and take some notes for him.I did meet her took the notes and after 2 days we met again so i would give her the notes back.We stayed on the street and chatted.When she was about to leave she said to me to text her and go for coffee sometime.
After 2 days i texted her and said there was gonna be a party in our dormitory(we live in the same dormitory with her,but in different buildings)
but she said she had left for the weekend to visit her dentist.We chated a bit and then said goodbye.This was 2 fridays ago.A week ago on tuesday i texted her to say hello and ask if she was back.She replied 3 hours later and apologized for not replying earlier,saying she was asleep.We exchanged 20 messages and i asked her out for the next day on wednesday.
Next day we meet,go out have a long walk,go drink a coffee together and generally we had a great time together and i started liking her.She happened to like horror movies(and i adore horror movies) so i asked her to go watch a movie together-without any ultirior motive to bed her or anything.She said :Why not,we could arrange it sometime.This on wednesday.
Next day i decide not to text her cuz i didnt want to rush things.So i text her on friday and ask her if we'll see that movie after all.She replies i'll tell you tommorow.I reply if i should at least get a movie for tommororw and she said yes get one.
On saturday i was waiting all day and she wouldnt send.When it was like 21:30 she texts me and asks what im doing.(At the time i was thinking that maybe i rushed things and did wrong to ask her watch a movie together at 2nd date,and felt a bit bad.)I replied im at my dormitory and just relaxing and asked what she was doing.She replied nothing so i asked her to meet outside my dorm and we'd decide what to do-watch a movie or go for a walk.She said i prefer to watch a movie.She comes in 5 mins and we watch the movie and generally had a great time and i tried to make her as comfortable as possible,since she was first time in my room.After the movie i thought what to do(she was still with me):Go and kiss her or dont kiss her so she wouldnt think i want only to bed her.I decided not to,and do it on our 3rd date.She said thanks for the movie and left.
Next day(sunday) i call her at 15:00 and she wont pick up.I text her after 10 min and ask how was she.No reply.I didnt know what was wrong.I didnt call again,nor texted.
Next day on monday while i was finishing my lunch at the dormitory restaurant i noticed her sitting 2 tables away from me.I look at her and the moment whe looked at me i smile and greet her and stand up and go sit with her.She was sitting with her best friend,whom i didnt know.I sit next to her friend as the seat next to her was broken(bad luck) and the moment i begin talking(to say hello etc) she takes her phone and leaves,as if to talk(or indeed to talk).It was exactly at the moment i sat there.You cant imagine my frustration at the moment.I was sitting with an unknown person and didnt know what to do or say.I tried to be relaxed (didnt do it well)and talk with her friend.Her friend (female) asked me where do i know her from,where im from etc as i she didnt know anything about me.I was about to leave when she comes back and acts as if nothing happened,said hello said she had lessons later.I was so frustrated from before that i couldnt think,so i said i too had lessons,greeted them and left.
My questions are what's going on?Why didnt she answear on sunday.And yesterday why did she leave the moment i went to her table?And what i should do now?I really like her,and dont know if i did something wrong.Maybe she expected more of me when she came at my place to watch the movie but i DIDNT WANT to rush things since it was only 2nd date.Any advice?And sorry for this lengthy post.