Lone Apothecary
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I'm sitting in my room, trying occupy myself as per usual. I had hope that things would get better a while ago. I was taking medication, seeing a psychologist, stopped cutting myself (although I only did it a few times), and was reaching out to a friend.
It's 3 weeks past the expected time for the medication to take effect, and I feel the same, even after doubling the dosage. I'll be seeing the doctor on Friday and getting on a different medication, but I find it hard to have any hope of it working.
I was hopeful at first that working with the psychologist would help me. I've been working through some stuff, and I felt as though it was helping at first, but now I find it hard to even sit down and read the sheets, let alone work through them.
I didn't cut myself in March, but lately I've been tempted to do it again. I feel crazy thinking about it, and even crazier for trying to rationalize it.
As for my friend, it doesn't seem like he's interested in talking to me. He had a problem with depression, and he confided in me, but I didn't do much to help him because I was depressed. I finally expressed my concern, and we talked a bit more than usual, but I always started the conversations, and I feel as though I'm just a bother, so I rarely even try talking to him now. I almost want to ask him to go do something some time, like get a coffee, but I don't know how, and I don't think he'd want to.
There's some of the details behind my current situation, so I suppose I should move on to the things I'd appreciate getting some help with. For starters, what would be a reasonable way to go about asking someone to go somewhere or do something with you? I feel silly just asking that, but I've never really asked anyone to go anywhere or do anything with me. I tagged along with my group of friends until everyone went their own way. I don't like alcohol or drugs, so I wouldn't go to parties, and eventually people just stopped asking me to go anywhere at all. Secondly, I have no idea how to deal with the emotions I'm feeling. I feel like I could cry, but it never happens. I've been feeling an urge to cut myself these past few nights in particular, especially when it's late and I can't sleep. I'll be meeting with the psychologist on Thursday, and I'd like to avoid cutting myself between now and then, so any advice on how to stave off the urge to injure myself would be greatly appreciated. Finally, and this is probably too broad, what can one do when things seem hopeless, when the situation continues to deteriorate, and when suicide becomes an increasingly viable option. Deep down, I don't really want a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I can still remember many times when things were better, but it's hard to tell where to draw the line and cut your losses.
This is probably pretty incoherent, as I'm not exactly having a good night. I'll probably end up calling a mental health crisis line if my mind keeps racing like it is, but I'd like to thank anyone who may happen to provide some assistance in advance.
It's 3 weeks past the expected time for the medication to take effect, and I feel the same, even after doubling the dosage. I'll be seeing the doctor on Friday and getting on a different medication, but I find it hard to have any hope of it working.
I was hopeful at first that working with the psychologist would help me. I've been working through some stuff, and I felt as though it was helping at first, but now I find it hard to even sit down and read the sheets, let alone work through them.
I didn't cut myself in March, but lately I've been tempted to do it again. I feel crazy thinking about it, and even crazier for trying to rationalize it.
As for my friend, it doesn't seem like he's interested in talking to me. He had a problem with depression, and he confided in me, but I didn't do much to help him because I was depressed. I finally expressed my concern, and we talked a bit more than usual, but I always started the conversations, and I feel as though I'm just a bother, so I rarely even try talking to him now. I almost want to ask him to go do something some time, like get a coffee, but I don't know how, and I don't think he'd want to.
There's some of the details behind my current situation, so I suppose I should move on to the things I'd appreciate getting some help with. For starters, what would be a reasonable way to go about asking someone to go somewhere or do something with you? I feel silly just asking that, but I've never really asked anyone to go anywhere or do anything with me. I tagged along with my group of friends until everyone went their own way. I don't like alcohol or drugs, so I wouldn't go to parties, and eventually people just stopped asking me to go anywhere at all. Secondly, I have no idea how to deal with the emotions I'm feeling. I feel like I could cry, but it never happens. I've been feeling an urge to cut myself these past few nights in particular, especially when it's late and I can't sleep. I'll be meeting with the psychologist on Thursday, and I'd like to avoid cutting myself between now and then, so any advice on how to stave off the urge to injure myself would be greatly appreciated. Finally, and this is probably too broad, what can one do when things seem hopeless, when the situation continues to deteriorate, and when suicide becomes an increasingly viable option. Deep down, I don't really want a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I can still remember many times when things were better, but it's hard to tell where to draw the line and cut your losses.
This is probably pretty incoherent, as I'm not exactly having a good night. I'll probably end up calling a mental health crisis line if my mind keeps racing like it is, but I'd like to thank anyone who may happen to provide some assistance in advance.